Wrong or right

I went onto my boyfriends face book and I saw a comment from his ex girl friend who he told me he wasnt talking to . I got upset because this has happened before . I called him out on it. He then went on to tell me he thought he had blocked me (Hiding Something ???) ) told me I was nosey I then told him it's called social media if he didn't want others reading it he should take it down .we broke up over this .my question is am I wrong for looking on my boy friends face book . The man yelled and ignored my calls and texts when he did call he yelled at me so bad you would have thought I murdered someone . I apologized to him but He remains mad and doesn't want to date me any more we were happy for over 6 months so I though ..she lives in a different state and is married .Please give me your opinion .sitting here broken hearted
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don't worry be happy ohh a ohh woobie doobie dooooo......smoking
You did nothing wrong in my opinion.

I'd be livid if my bf had me blocked on FB or anywhere else for that matter.


Oooooohhhhhhhh Abby.....trust me, I know how you're feeling now..comfort hug hug hug
Abby .. For you to look through his stuff, indicates, you didn't trust him in the first place - sorry, just being honest,
Leony thank you hug
He had you, his girlfriend, blocked from his FB? uh oh

And yet had a ex-girlfriend on it?


Somehow, I think you are well rid of him.

Move on to somebody that is trustworthy, and that you don't feel the need to spy on,
Dream catcher thank you for your option I wasn't blocked because I was able to get on his face book and I wasn't sneaking around,teddybear
Wolfe thank you for your in out however I told him I went on his face book I guess I was surprised to see them talking when he swore to me he wasn't maybe he isn't .but the trust is gone and my heartbreak will go away teddybear
That's for me too, sadly...sigh
DC.. wise owl words xx
It looks like you was blind in that 6 months happy time...he lie,he hide and yelled when he was caught,what a character in a manbarf

Rolf
Dream catch I agree with you the trust is gone .my heart still hurts however I will get passed this .i hope all is well with you teddybear
Wolf your right teddybear
Ralph he and I have been off and on .but this is the last time I play the fool thank you for your comment teddybear
Dream catcher thank for the laugh laugh I love your picture bouquet
I learnt my lesson a couple of years ago, now, I trust, and if I am suspicious, I ask, you may not always hear the answer you want, but, I would prefer someone ask me, than to go through my stuff.
When I start a relationship, my first conversation, is honesty, I respect anyone who can be honest, yes, it hurts sometimes, and sometimes, you get told stuff you would rather not hear, but, that's just me - maybe im too trusting, dunno
Never trust a Man......sad flower .......
Wolf I respect your option .im fine with hearing the truth as long as it's the truth . I'm a suspicious person when given a reason .thank you for your honesty teddybear bouquet
Calypso rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing thank I needed that teddybear
I don't care at all,if my Love one go trough my stuff,because I never have anything to hide....yes,because I'm completely trustworthy,just simple as that.

Rolf
Wolfie wine teddybear

Abby Recovering albeit slowly. At one time was thinking to myself..."Maybe I was too demanding? Too clingy? Too unreasonable? Too jealous?? Or maybe, we were just not meant to be..."

While it was good while it lasted. However, I know I need to move on...to better things wink

Take care of your heart, Abby hug teddybear
Dream thank you and you do the same .im guilty of loving him to much and giving him all the freedom he wanted .take care teddybear heart wings bouquet
DC bouquet .. we all have to move on sometime, however, when we do move on, we are stronger xx love & peace
I think you were right to break up. Suspicion, jealousy, whatever you want to call it, is our subconscious knowing there is something not quite right. You followed up on that and however innocent their conversation was he lied about it, and he got upset about you looking.

Remember also that the men - and of course women - who are most righteous about trust and honesty are usually the ones who have told their own share of lies to get what they want. That's always fine when they are the ones doing it. It is only unforgivable when it is others doing it. scold
Elegsabiff he broke up with me . I'm still in shock because after all is out there for everyone to see. I'm guilty of not trusting him I finally get that . He was no saint he got so mad he scare me . I guess it's all for the best thank you again for your straight forward comment teddybear
wave I know nothing about facebook except the two words
should not go together. Is there any privacy at all on that
media?, or is it open? It sounds like reading someone's diary.
Their should be an ambience of personal privacy and therefore
respect for that. Am I way off here?, or is information accessible for all to read if posted?dunno
Pat, it depends on the privacy settings you put on.

I have a FI account, but I don't put anything private on it either way.

Nor do I tell the world I am now going to make a cup of tea, or go to the bathroom roll eyes

It depends how people use it.
Pedal, you can set your FB so that only your friends can see it, and even make comments that are limited to family or a private group.

You can have private conversations which are entirely private. Abby's fella could have done that, and she would never have known.
you can put your personal information on private... So its only sold to marketing companies, and your picture copyright is the property of an American company. I could achieve better, writing my stuff in a diary or a word document etc...
Sands, that was perfect.thumbs up
First time this year Pedal.....thanksgrin
My record aint so goodlaugh
Constant state of flux.cool
PG, good philosophy, can't hit a moving target.......good strategy here that's for sure..laugh
PG and Sands

Too funny, you two! laugh laugh laugh

wave
Hi DC, didn't recognize your pic......because it's the real you....very nice soft comforting pic....thumbs up
Thanks Sands blushing blushing blushing
wave Lovely protruding picture Mimigrin
Errrrr....you mean my fake eyelashes, PG?!?!! innocent innocent innocent

You'd need to come a bit closer to be able to see 'em.....why my eyelashes of course! What were you thinking ah?? scold
How do Abbywave
to a point i can understand why he might block you ...
what i don't like about him is the way he roared and shouted at you, he doesn't sound too caring or understanding... and if there's nothing more to the story than what meets the eye??? then maybe your better off without him in your life dunno
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