Does patience pays off..
Do you ever experience one of those times where you feel like people around you just wants to take advantage of you? that they only try to find you when they want something from you?I dont like to make a big deal out of things anymore, i only react to things with a simple yes or a simple no, but i try keep it polite.
After all there are things in this life we can truly have by sharing them
I try to be reasonable with my own feelings, i think when we are being positive we are emotionally smarter and it kindda hurt less.
I think that, its nice to be nice
But it takes a lot of patience and also courage just to live a life nowadays,and that i know for sure.
its how Eminem would say it, dont feel the pain, just carry on , smile, rejoice.
Maybe he gone through shit to get where hes at right now.
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Yes, I definitely have less patience. I also have a smaller circle of people around that I trust and WANT to spend time with. I have a social circle to get out and about that I can drop in and out as it suits, and then a few people I spend quality time with and I'm close to.
I'm happy this way and appreciate the people I have.
Life is a lesson, you have a good day,
if you feel used by someone you should directly tell that person that you realize this. Only this way others can also learn from those who know how to solve their problems without using others.
A lot of people think they have a right to TAKE.... find the ones that give as much as they take....the rest just say no and they will move on.... 1 good friend is better than 10 000 users...
Good luck
good friend not who live in touch always or continued communication
but true friend like shadow
I believe positive people are more successful in life. I could be wrong but a good example is with the latest Super Bowl and Peyton Manning.
Peyton's only concern was to be loved by his team and his coaches...and it is a genuine love. His team was predicted to lose the Super Bowl, but they ended up dominating the other team.
I have paid a little attention to how people live who are negative and positive. It seems to me that the positive thinking people are not only happier in life but more financially successful. I agree with what you say.
It is on us as to how we perceive the world. It also helps to surround yourself with positive people as well and be mindful of the negative ones. It is okay for them to be negative...after all, they have the right to live their lives the way they wish. But, be careful not to let that negativity become you.
I have little patience for friends whom you described in your blog..