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yes i have and like you i just went with the flow don't rock the boat so to speak.but after awhile it began to eat at my soul,always being the one to give in so we could just talk and spend any amount of time together.it was that i never got the same feeling in return,i could not see it was me whom did not receive the same all-out feelings that i gave.and i started to hate myself,and i could not give of myself or my heart anymore.i wish you all the best and god bless you girl,thanks for sharing and you have a great day.your friend don don

That happens sometimes. It's hard when you do meet someone that complements your life in many ways and makes you happy and the circumstances are less than ideal for your proper union. But how often is this happening and how often are you the one sacrificing?
Those are the two questions I think you should focus on. I can understand an unfavorable circumstance once, but several times?

If it keeps happening then it's not meant to be..and or he's taking you for a ride. Are you sure he is not involved with several women. A man who is involved with several women are never in favorable circumstances and if he's a player...it will never change. I would seriously consider taking a real good look at your relationship to make sure your not someone's good time on the side when ever he feels like it or is convenient for him.

God bless and Good luck!

Thanks Guys :) I dont know I am starting to beleive that when the right one comes along it will be 100 percent right with no drama or uncertainty. So lets see what life has in store for this sexy mamma :)

I've been in this situation before girl, make sure it's what your heart really wants. Love is about sacrafices but both parties should compromise, and if it seems like you and the person can't be together because of circumstances maybe its not to be. sometimes we try to hold onto things we're suppose to let go but only you know what's best for you. Wish you the best!

Hey girl I can understand where you are coming from... we have to trust in God to lead us in the right direction and maybe that is what you are feeling. I believe that he sets what is right in our heart and sometimes we deny it because we are scared of what he is actually puting in us.

There is always going to be times when people that are meant to be won't be able to be with each other. But it is up to them two people to make the effort to be together. Not just one! It won't work w/ only one side. A relationship should be two people working as a team.

My fiancee' works 12 hr shifts nowadays... I wasn't use to him working them plus my aunt was diagnosed w/ cancer about the same time he started to work 12's there is somedays we don't talk at all. I don't deny he is the one for me he's the love of my life. It has put more stress on our relationship but also more hope. God strengthens and teaches us all the time its our job to take it learn it and apply it to helping others!

You know in your heart what the right choice is.

Praying for you Always,

Lora

In my past relationships, I never kept track of who was doing most of the sacrificing or not. Because at that point, are you trying to be with the person or expecting something in return for the "sacrifices"? So I would say try not to think way because it's just going to create hostile emotions and just go with the flow of the relationship. If you don't like the way it is, then you don't like it. But trying to make a person do something for you just doesn't work. They have to want to do something. And if they don't, then they don't and you have to figure out if that's the relationship you want. Hopefully, this makes sense because it makes sense in my head.

There is a book that Woody Allen based his new movie on that says it all. The movie is called "He's just not that into you."
It's all about US women trying to analyze, justify, quality, etc. all the reasons why it's OK that he didn't call ...yet. Why he hasn't done this or that... yet. Like it's a "yet" question as opposed to, maybe this isn't working.
The name of the movie/book is: He's just not that into you."
Tell me what you think...?
~deb

man oh man that rings true for me right now :) I'm in the same situation for years now....hey maybe it's the same guy! He's not kenyan is he?!!! Hehehehe Well...I can't offer much advice, more I just wanted to express my happiness at not being totally alone in this experience :) if you find the answer to this life questions then let us know ;)