Responding to the messages. How to?

Hi guys! New to the online dating:-) Do you respond to all the messages and stuff like that? Even with the "Thanks, but no Thanks?" Are any rules? Thanks for the hints!
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Hi Lora , just be yourself,
don't be too nice about it, if the content attracts you then go for it.
There's a new members area you can find in the forum, where you can read about other members experiences ...like I said , just be yourself but there are few "funny" people around here

uh oh
Hey Lora!!wave I wrote a blog about this very subject a while back very interesting views on this?? I said it was rude not too open a flower or mail weather you wish too speak too the person or not, as you may know there is a timer on each you send and when it gets open?? So you see my point was if someone takes the time too write you or contact you then at least open the thing and receive a compliment but you don't have too respond to each of them but do open in a timely fashion maybe?? Then they will feel better promise, if you don't respond most move on!! JMO!!





Stay Blessed!!!!
Goodenuphangel
I haven't responded to any lately cause all I get are mails from men who obviously haven't really read my profile and those I just delete.
I also found out from another blogger here that some men use Proxy Servers which can override the sites server.
If they give their email address or phone number in the first email...delete and block.

If they say My Dear...delete and block.


If they are widowered and in the military ...delete and block.


Other than that...you can make up your own mind, either a short polite reply, ignore, or chat to them ...enjoy handshake
@blue

correct observation. private email addresses and phone number too. The obvious, asking for credit card details and etc etc.
Molly, for one second i thought I was paranoid about the fella from the us army based in Indonesia , wanting to marry ME..!!?!???!

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
I agree with else.
Lora you will learn yourself.
Welcome nd Enjoy.
teddybear peace hug
Lora, welcome. All these posts make sense. But by all means, try to avoid responding to any man here with "Aaltar" in his name. Aaltarboy.
Hi Seri, are you disappointed that you are not his unique love?kiss

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Lora!

This is a common "problem" and you will see what I am talking about as you continue. I say that because this is a problem for the ladies because you will get 100's of offers and soon. Your an attractive lady so be prepared.

My advice is pick and choose!!
Molly, I think I'll get over it sigh
Hi Lora! There are no rules.. moping
this is an advantage of individuality : everyone creates his/her own rules.. laugh
Thanks to all of you who answered:-) Good luck with your search!
Whatever you decide to do....just be careful. Not everyone on here is legit.
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