Posted:Mon Jun 29, 2009 7:50 PM CST
I Don't Understand
I am new to this site. I have had a pretty hard life. I am 36 no children and still looking. That is not what I was looking for. It is not what I expected. I wonder when will my special person come along. I do not know. But I know this I do not want to doe alone.
oswyn
Nassau Bahamas
Mon Jun 29, 2009 7:53 PM CST
I mean die alone.
Death is a trip we all take alone my friend.
gmoneygeorge
salisbury, North Carolina USA
Mon Jun 29, 2009 8:24 PM CST
well i don't want to die along either.
1234567
dammam Saudi Arabia
Tue Jun 30, 2009 1:56 AM CST
calmheartseeks
Orange County, California USA
Tue Jun 30, 2009 5:51 PM CST
I am wondering, what is your definition of a "good woman"?
Because there are many, many good women (women who want to love and be loved, are honorable, kind, etc).
It is really not fair to say the women on CS are not good women. How many have you really gotten to know?
Keep the faith and good luck! :)
Antigone
San Francisco, California USA
Tue Jun 30, 2009 6:18 PM CST
How about joining some social groups or organizations?
Find a church and attend their social functions as well as services(great place to meet women), but go only if you truly believe in their teachings
Some great places to meet women:
Beauty supply stores (you can pretend you're shopping, so you don't look like a stalker but, don't pretend too long or you'll look like a shoplifter!)
Barbershops with a beauty salons
Mall
Dept store makeup counters (pretend you're buying something for your sister, mum, aunt... Ask for advice
Dept store shoes and accessories depts (you'll find women in droves, especially during sales)
Ice cream or yoghurt shops
If you're good at sports start, or offer to, coach a team (my brother met his wife when he was coaching her soccer team)
Take a college course that's popular with women (my sister enrolled in a class that's popular with men - Crime Scene Forensics. The 2nd term, she met the man who's now her fiance)
While you're looking:
Be charming and respectful
Don't be desperate (or don't act it). Concentrate on genuinely getting to know the person
Be patient
Take care of your self (your queen could show up at any time)
Believe it will happen for you
Antigone
San Francisco, California USA
Tue Jun 30, 2009 6:21 PM CST
I see you're in Bahamas; some of my suggestions might be a bit of a stretch?
But church, certainly, would be valid