hycats718 Blog Post: Tue Jun 30, 2009 8:23 PM CST

hycats718 springfield, Ohio USA
Posted:Tue Jun 30, 2009 8:23 PM CST

Why do I even try................

I find it totally amazing.......these so called dating sites. The people on these sites say they want honesty, but when it REALLY comes down to it, the women here are as phoney as it comes.

Does any other man wonder what in the hell is going on? It doesn't seem to matter what you say or write, it is not accepted as the truth. You are either ignored or snubbed.

What in God's name are we suppose to do?

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sweet_saucy2008 Northwest, Tennessee USA
Tue Jun 30, 2009 8:42 PM CST
If I may say as a woman I do in fact take offense to what you are saying. You are using a number of experiences to classify all women as being phoney. I would say the same about the men, but why ruin the reputation of the male population on this site over a number of those who are phoney. Or would you prefer players? That is what women generally call these men.

I have had the same problem that you have had and if you really want to know what I am about, then come get to know me. I despise the players as much as you say that you do. And you are right, what are we suppose to do? scold

I will not ignore nor snub anyone who sends me an email. I feel like I am knocking my head on that wall as well. frustrated
heatherhuntsman van nuys, California USA
Tue Jun 30, 2009 8:55 PM CST
Release the need for this problem Take charge of the part you play in it. Approve of yourself and know you deserve to be happy. Please send me a message . Rejoice and give thanks for the good in your life and more will come. Peace and Loveblushing angel
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1234567 JEDDAH Saudi Arabia
Wed Jul 1, 2009 2:00 AM CST
yes man u are right,internet dating seems to be an illusion,but some of my friends told me that it can really work out,but i dont count much on it,anyway i dont need any more depression,sometimes i think its a waste of time,but how knows man,mirecles happens in fairytalles&may be in real life,GOODLUCK.handshake handshake cheers cheers
imjustme38 Columbia, Tennessee USA
Wed Jul 1, 2009 11:08 AM CST
It's not just the women.. some men are the same way.. notice I did say some, I'm not classifying all men in one group. I know there has to be someone out there who wants honesty and a good woman.. I'll just wait til he comes along. I'm in no hurry for it is said that 'good things come to those who wait' and if it's gonna be right, I'd rather wait than rush. wink angel
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rubendario Hartford, Connecticut USA
Wed Jul 1, 2009 9:08 PM CST
In response to: What in God's name are we suppose to do?


Give it allot of time. There are many very nice, mature, and really good women on this site. It takes time. You may start sending emails back and forth with one for awhile then it ends. Why? Incompatibility has come-up. That's ok...keep trying..eventually you will chat with one...perhaps even talk to one on the phone..and even then incompatibility will come-up. We are all very complex individuals and sometimes we are at different stages in our lives and sometimes in different situations. Just keep trying, eventually...you'll find one that you can communicate well with, sees you, and accepts you, for who you are. Look for a loyal friend then let everything else fall into place.

Good luck and God bless!!

grin cool
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museveni86 doha Qatar
Thu Jul 2, 2009 8:56 AM CST
i realy agree with you,when u asked what we are supposed to do
you join this site with all the excitement after you have been
told by a friend,only to reach here you find the likes of sweet
saucy who are here to pass time and confuse men,they dont have
any thing they are looking for,i will give it only two months
if i dont get what i want which is a serious partner,i will only
leave my profile when iam not on this site,what i know is that
most of the men are serious and real looking for women,but the
fictious players are the opposite sex,but there are geniune women
also on this site and there are scammers too.so it becomes a bit
difficult for us to know who is real and who is a player
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Thu Jul 2, 2009 3:08 PM CST
Perfectly understand on what you are saying.,go and travel overseas and experience other Woman from different Cultures that will open up your Eyes .....handshake

J.D....M.C.P grin devil
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raphael118 arlington, Virginia USA
Sun Jul 5, 2009 10:39 AM CST
She's young, beautiful, rich ..... then somethings wrong.
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javahacker diamond bar, California USA
Sun Jul 12, 2009 5:18 PM CST
....never put all of your hopes into internet dating..
if you want to meet a woman, do it IN PERSON, go to a mall, store, restaurant, another town...

geez, so many men have no GAME skills.
internet sites are just that, fun, comical, jokes.
they are not supposed to be taken seriously, or didnt you read the fine print.

listen old timer, get off your keester, go out into the REAL WORLD, get out from behind that keyboard, stretch your BIG FAT BELLY and walk alittle, go to a GYM, CRUISE, anywhere, but dont expect TRUE LOVE on any internet sites.

GOT IT!!!..now go, find yourself a woman. I am sure your not that picky...
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Fri Jul 17, 2009 3:02 PM CST
You poutting and bitching about it will not make the 'ladies' be more into you.

Maybe your emailing or trying to date women who are out of your league.!? As messed up as it sounds it happens. It happens to women as well. Troll through some of these blogs and you will see that men are Snubbing women all over the place. And i tell them the same thing i'm telling you 'you are not everyones cup of tea. And if you have a guy who's not interested, thank your lucky starts that they showed it on here then in person. Anyone who dont email back or anything like that is usually the same in person and wouldnt you have liked to found out on here that the chic is uncaring adn dont give a shit then to go out and find out in person that they are not for you no matter how they look??

Everyone on these sites are getting snubbed. No one is exempt from getting it. So,you do with what you have and more on. No need to cry about it..

I wish you the best of luck.. Have no expectations. I see that people put too much of they're heart in this and that's why so many people are hurt!!.. Just go in with low/no expectations that way if you get someone..great. If you dont...who cares.

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