Posted:Wed Jul 1, 2009 10:25 PM CST
Long Distance romance
In my love life, I have mostly stuck close to home. I had only one somewhat long-distance relationship-150 miles. Its too bad that the practical difficulties of long-distance are intimidating, since there are some really hot-looking women here who live far from my own North America. I am curious to know if anybody has tried the long-distance thing and made it work.
Antigone
San Francisco, California USA
Thu Jul 2, 2009 11:53 AM CST
I had one that was going quite well (for a year)...until he insisted that I drop everything and move in with him, with no job, friends, family - no safety net whatsoever. I wasn't against moving, I just wanted to be prepared (and have a contingency plan in case it didn't work out, and he wouldn't have it. Broke it off when I said, "not yet". Brat! He regrets it now.
Despite this "failure" I think it can work. Both parties need to be fair and reasonable when negotiating arrangements.
Antigone
San Francisco, California USA
Thu Jul 2, 2009 11:55 AM CST
I lived in California; he lived in New Mexico.