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welcome to cs man,dont count much on these ladies here,u may send hundreds of flowers&mails without receiving any replay man,thats quite normal here.takecare man,wish u goodluck in finding A GOOD WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!

First Welome to the site! Most people here are nice and once they get to know you here will help you out and be friends. Give yourself some time, you just got here and are new. I took a look at your profile, hope you don't mind. Here are just a few suggestions, you may want to add some more info. to it and a picture of you that is not a close up, so that the girls can see you better, it is out of focus. The other one is too far away and you can't see you too well. If you added your other information like interests, school, tags, and such that would help get attention too. Maybe you are trying too hard. Let things come more easily. Just write a short kind email that comes from your heart. You may want to check the girls profile well. She may not want a long distance relationship, or friendship, you want friendship, she may want longterm or marriage, that may be a reason for her not writing back. It may be as simple as that. Be sure to read what the person wants and her interests and see if they match what is on your profile, not just looks only. This is just my view. I wish you all the best. I am sure you will find someone meant just for you. Give it time and remember take your time, woman sometimes tend to move slower in relationships and like to be romanced. Hope some of this helped. Take care. Bless You. Peace and Hugs!

Courage, you have the happyist smile I've ever seen. Just thought you should know that.

Dude, a big broad smile goes a long way to win the honeys. Oh, and put some clothes on, hard to believe I know, but chics don't like topless pics of guys unless of course you have a build like Evander Holyfield.

Michael1080,

welcome. don't despair. Participate in the forums, polls, blogs and don't worry about not getting responses. Don't make this your only option for findng that "cool girl".

BTW, I think you meant "shy".

Hi I am in Northridge. I will chat with you Send me a message. First put your air conditioner on. Cheer up. You can meet a woman at a million places around here. Peace and Love Heather

ty you all for your feed back and yes i ment shy not sly lol i do need a better pic also ty all

Hi and welcome to the site...I joind a couple months ago myself, and had the same problem myself. I'm now chatting with three very nice young ladies. I found that a lot of people do not log on often, and some I notice read their messages but don't respond for a while. And I don't know if this had anything to with it or not...but maybe try different approaches. Try not to be too direct or volunteer too much information. And try not to ask too much when U first start messaging people. Not saying that had anything to do with it, but all things are possible. And it may take a while, but somebody WILL start talking to ya man. Good luck and take care.

Try to broaden your search scope. It seems more often then not someone close to you will not respond or be as exciting as someone who lives further away. For lack of a better term, "New Talent" is in the house. That seems to be the problem I have with the males as well, but someone further away shows more interest.

Hi Yr 24!!!
You know I see guys and girls on these sites all so young go out to a dance enjoy yrself youll meet someone in life easier
Internet dating is great for people who cant get out much you your single nice looking go out have fun !!!

Howdy and Welcome to CS, Michael!

A genuine smile goes a long way, also a nice suit or shirt can do wonders. You can also join in on the forums and conversations. That will draw women to your profile and hopefully open up a brand new world of great women both near and far.

Good Luck!

the same is hapnening with i was thinking it might be a race issue

I think most ladies are very particular about becoming involved on this. Plus many are not who they pretend to be, want attention, are currently interested in just one guy... its a lot like life- you can have a real loser reject you and a great beauty crazy about you.

Dude, Who knows why people do things sometime. I think that some aren't really looking on here but are just living a makebelieve life here where they can flirt, interact or even feel powerful in rejecting people while their real life is much different. Don't take it too serious just participate and see where it goes. Welcome and good luck.

I don't know, man. I've chatted with a few women on this site, and they seem to be legit, but they've all been about an hour away from where I am. I've seen even on other sites that the girls that are close to you don't chat with you or show interest. Shady. Like I said, bro, I don't quite know about these sites yet.

shame there's not more locals to one's own area. thiis is the part that sucks. i get messages from over seas, you know WTF. i'am never gonna see the female WTH do i wanta even talk to this person. people just don't understand