Ideas of a young man..
Just a short monolog from me, don't take serious if you don't like it. I just wanna share my ideas.People like us, why we looking for the love online?
I've been thinking so much time about it but still can't give logical answer for the question. I've had a look for some of the profiles and every single person looking for anything. Some of us looking for a friendship, a pen pal, hanging out with, and most of the people be man/woman does not matter looking for the true love.
But the question is, why on websites?
All of us live in the real world and we are not able to find the right person around us. Why? Probably we are just unlucky, we have not enough time because of our job or only we are coward, we can't trust in ourself because we afraid from the rejection or we just feel shame about our feelings. I am sure that the right person is always around us just we need to open up our eye. Otherwise the other people who is live in relationship next to us and we see day after day they are happy and enjoy every moment of the life. We still just try to figure out the success of them.
I've realized that we just need to trust ourself and need to be brave to ask for a date or only go for a simple coffee otherwise we could lose so much valuable time from our life. What we can lose? Why is better to sit front of the computer and wait for a mail or an answer which maybe never comes.
Well, guys I think what we need actually, that is only trust and courage... I know it is easy to say and a few of us maybe asking now, why you don't do it? why did you write here you opinion instead of do something?
But everybody has to find the own answer for the question. Why am i doing this????
Thanks very much the attention!
God bless guys!
I am not a native speaker so please don't laugh at me! :)
Comments (12)
Than To Speak To Them In Real Life....................
I joined this site 6 years ago many to check it out cause I'd never been on a dating site before.
Only been on hunting and fishing sites.
Now to answer your question.
I think probably some who communicate on the on the internet cause they find it much easier then in person.
I do do most of my communicating with people up close and personal than on the net.
Obviously it's much easier in person cause you can observe their body language etc.
Matthew I met to say I have a nephew named Matthew.
We r just wasting our time on net to seek a true relationship.
actually we feel ashamed when we discus our feelings with someone we know or around us . 2ndly our known person thinks negative and behave negative about us when we discuss our heart feeling or share with him.
I don't look for love online as I have found that this site locally is mainly used by socially inept guys that can't find someone in RL or looking for legovers.
Go out and meet people in RL.
Online, like going to pubs; clubs or social gatherings is just another method of meeting people.
There is nothing wrong with having yet another method of meeting potential partners and friends, as long as it doesn't preclude all of the others.
So, ask that person out for a coffee,whether you meet them online or in real life. You have nothing to lose
the more people we get to know the more of new aquaintances are possible. We can't choose a person like a book we buy in a shop, but we can have certain imaginations about someone in the forefield.
We can still have all kinds of friends besides - in real life and on the internet. So, let them come across you like a river that flows. Then it's most enjoyable.