Hang on just a goddam minute here....

Are men really shallow..?

In a recent post one voluptuous lady from jamaica said that men are shallow coz they look at the cleavage..one even said that if you show your cleavage it has benefits but attracts the nutters.

Ok so let me get this straight..you're over 50, saggy puppies, and think a nice set of chuffties may attract the opposite sex.

So if that's the case why is it women that say this, go and get a boob job, to whose benefit is it confused ..theirs, because they feel men are so shallow that they won't be attracted to the brain so a boob job will increase the chances of getting a man ?..or because it makes them feel like a women again ?

Now the lovely lady in question in Jamaica says that men are only after one thing...so ill give you a scenario.

You have a body that you're happy with, and wish not to change it. So you meet a guy..your together for a few months and getting on great..your out with your man and wearing a nice dress with a zip up front...this dress is showing all your natural and great curves.

You get home and your man approaches you, slowly unzips your dress to reveal a wonderful set of hooters...he looks at them with a sparkle in his eyes, grabs them gentley caressing them and give's them a nice little nibble...NOW! is he a pervery or is he appreciating you as a GF and the womens body...of course you as the women are enjoying it, coz he your BF.

Is he a pervy ? shallow ? because he is thinking the same as another man who can only dream of having these assets in his hands...?..
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I don't like moobs.... Get a moob jobrolling on the floor laughing
To over all generalize Men and Women to something negative,has to do with only one thing,you are already on the road of hate...no matter it is less or more,in the beginning or the end,it is the road of gender hate and nothing elsedoh
If you show 'em, expect 'em to be looked at.
Obviously any man will look and if they don't then they obviously aren't normal.giggle
Hang on for a goddam minute yourself Ian flex

Less of this public lashing of women in their 50's..
not all women after passing that age have saggy baggiesscold

Some of us do still have natural well trained puppies
if you know what I mean wink

So if you don't mind, its hard enough facing that hill that's a head of us without you pushing us over it when were not quiet there very happy .. yet sigh
......and I should say....when a man "gets it," essentially the man is allowing the woman to dictate what is going to happen next.

also....allowing the woman to back out at anytime she wishes without her having to say it.



The man can read non-verbals....for the most part.
...oh yeah....to answer your question about shallow...laugh


Welcome to the world of woman logic. laugh
Ian, Gypsy, Molly and Itch have a point. But in defense of us men, not all of us are shallow, not all of us will be after one thing, However If a women feels that she will attract a decent man with her mammalian protuberances, she will attract the wrong man.

We like to look, we like to touch, equally for me personally to sit and hold the hand of a woman means more in the long term.
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Molly, yes I think so too

To look at a woman's face, to see her eyes shining with happiness, her lips moist and her smile is what counts.hug
Just to reiterate...I did write 'not all men' in my comment professor grin
Sorry Molly, If I sound a bit sarcastic, lately I ve been listening to a lot of male bashing,doh Some of it is deserved ,by men, but it don t apply to all men. It gets rather, too much at times,doh There are a lot of decient fellows out there,yay
1to1, don't let it get to you.

Some is in jest, some is by people with issues.

But the majority of women know the majority of men are good hug
Georgie, women's bodies are more attractive than men's bodies.

And men are more visual than women.

Put both of those together, and of course they are going to look.

It's natural.




And as you say yourself, you do a bit of looking as well! laugh
My point exactly Georige...use you voluptuousness to your advantage...how much is a flight to Jamaica anyway ...dunno
Rex..ive got 3 bikes..take you pick
I am sure most men arent and wouldnt be that shallow and i like her as she is for who she is....what youve said and how yovue said it, couldnt have said it better than myself , i think you word it in such a way that a guy in love appreciates and values his significant other for everything she is not just whether she has had them done or is considering having them done to (in her mind)attract men. i personally believe its good for men and women to appreciate each other as they are for who they are just sa they are ,acceptance is the key. appreciate what you have got..women are so much more than their physical appearance ...its good that you have shared this..in answer to youre questions i think hes just appreciating and enjoying his partner for who she is ...all of who she is.
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