Hang on just a goddam minute here....
Are men really shallow..?In a recent post one voluptuous lady from jamaica said that men are shallow coz they look at the cleavage..one even said that if you show your cleavage it has benefits but attracts the nutters.
Ok so let me get this straight..you're over 50, saggy puppies, and think a nice set of chuffties may attract the opposite sex.
So if that's the case why is it women that say this, go and get a boob job, to whose benefit is it ..theirs, because they feel men are so shallow that they won't be attracted to the brain so a boob job will increase the chances of getting a man ?..or because it makes them feel like a women again ?
Now the lovely lady in question in Jamaica says that men are only after one thing...so ill give you a scenario.
You have a body that you're happy with, and wish not to change it. So you meet a guy..your together for a few months and getting on great..your out with your man and wearing a nice dress with a zip up front...this dress is showing all your natural and great curves.
You get home and your man approaches you, slowly unzips your dress to reveal a wonderful set of hooters...he looks at them with a sparkle in his eyes, grabs them gentley caressing them and give's them a nice little nibble...NOW! is he a pervery or is he appreciating you as a GF and the womens body...of course you as the women are enjoying it, coz he your BF.
Is he a pervy ? shallow ? because he is thinking the same as another man who can only dream of having these assets in his hands...?..
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Less of this public lashing of women in their 50's..
not all women after passing that age have saggy baggies
Some of us do still have natural well trained puppies
if you know what I mean
So if you don't mind, its hard enough facing that hill that's a head of us without you pushing us over it when were not quiet there .. yet
also....allowing the woman to back out at anytime she wishes without her having to say it.
The man can read non-verbals....for the most part.
Welcome to the world of woman logic.
We like to look, we like to touch, equally for me personally to sit and hold the hand of a woman means more in the long term.
To look at a woman's face, to see her eyes shining with happiness, her lips moist and her smile is what counts.
Some is in jest, some is by people with issues.
But the majority of women know the majority of men are good
And men are more visual than women.
Put both of those together, and of course they are going to look.
It's natural.
And as you say yourself, you do a bit of looking as well!