Deenaz1
Deenaz1
Jun 2016
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Was clear as day

Hiya all.. As last mentioned, I'd like to contunie from last blog, why do we rush sometimes after meeting someone and in the longer run it all ended in regrets and dissapointments. Hmn.. I hear some of my friends excuses or reasons so clearly in my head as I'm writing this,tick took there goes my biological clock, or its now or never, I have to lower my expectations it's just not happening, ( meaning settling for whatever,). Have you ever dated someone from a dating site and noticed they had a specific preference, on their online page for example Asian, or black.. But you are Hispanic then he/she ended up cheating with his online preference, is presently married and now building a family? What about,Petite, athletic, now girl come on you know u curvy and love meat, his / her excuses for breaking up.. U are so not healthy and I'm Not happy with all your meat eating... Lol not to say it couldn't work as is, but sometimes it's plain as day, in my opinion, when someone says what they want or prefer in their partner they usually mean it. I have been there so I can add one to the belt as a personal experience. Peace and love always.
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Deenaz1
Deenaz1OP●Ladyville, Belize Belize
Jun 29, 2016●4 Blogs●9 Comments
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Yes Molly.. True thing.. However sometimes a type of connection happens even when you meet someone offline.. that encourages both to think that it might work ignoring their true desires or preference. From what I know so far not a good outcome.
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Proficiency1
Proficiency1●Montego Bay, Saint James Jamaica
Jul 1, 2016●1,188 Comments
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Sometimes though what you are looking for is not necessarily what is good for you.
We normally check the criteria and then realise that the person we have come to adore is in fact the right person for us. Not necessarily the physical attributes we were looking for.
It is a tricky game. Some times we win and sometimes we loose!
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mollybaby
mollybaby●Cork City, Cork Ireland
Jul 1, 2016●37 Blogs●11,285 Comments
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Deen, I agree with you.

I have dated people who did not fit my criteria at all. But as you say, there is a connection.
I would never regret those relationships though. Maybe they didn't work out, but they did enrich my life.
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Deenaz1
Deenaz1OP●Ladyville, Belize Belize
Jul 2, 2016●4 Blogs●9 Comments
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Aww Molly.. You are so right.. Lately I've looked at my past relationships, whether friendships or more and each has taught me something, so that I had gotten closer to my true self.. I have grown,and I couldn't have said it better as you did! You are very insightful! Thanks.. Smile
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Deenaz1
Deenaz1OP●Ladyville, Belize Belize
Jul 2, 2016●4 Blogs●9 Comments
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Profiency1 that's another valid point sometimes there is a connection after starting as friends you realize, wow.. I want this person to remain a lifelong friend or... possibly more. Whatever the outcome.. One has to keep the faith and remain positive, contuine on, as Molly said those experiences or past encounters have resulted in not only the negative but have enriched our lives somehow.
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