Posted:Wed Jul 15, 2009 11:35 PM CST
whether love is solution or creates complications?
It has been said that love is the solution to the problem of man's alienation from himself, from others, and from the world. is it so....?
if so, then why mostly people "INFECTED" from love look sad???
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Thu Jul 16, 2009 10:52 AM CST
Because they both had two different beliefs/theories of what Love is and they werent the same. If you are with someone, that you feel you love, both of your ideas of what love is has to be almost the same. Love to her might be him sending gifts and to him it could be phone calls. It could be to her spending all they're free time together to him it could be sex. TO him it could be space and security to her it could be spending all they're time together never leaving his side. He could love spending time alone camping and she might like spending time alone in a nice Hotel.. Love to her could be him complimenting her or just noticing her (new hair cut) to her love could be him taking out the trash without being asked. To him lovev could be not bothering him while he's watching the game or supporting him in his need for quality time with his friends with no insecurities.. it's basic. But you get my point. Love means different things to people and if they arent the same, that will cause problems. And i have noticed that people are in love with being in love. Not the person. Just the Idea of being in love. Loving just for the sake of Loving. And they have no idea of what love is. They just want the things/feelings they see in the movies.. Love is lasting, forever, even if the relationship isnt. And what people think is love is nothing more then intense feelings brought on by nothing more then basic physical attraction..
chughtayejee
burewala, Punjab Pakistan
Thu Jul 16, 2009 11:27 PM CST
thas great idea....as all u mentioned above. but the problem is that people dont know about the core ideology when their relations develops from simple friendship to the real relation of love.