Fight against or Live with Loneliness?

Still very very difficult to confront loneliness no matter how hard i try to be strong!

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Well done, LS!

The third and fourth pics from the top are arranged quite artistically; they capture the theme of the blog remarkably well.

cowboy
Loved pictures and blog. You live through --- loneliness and before long it becomes your friend. Your body and mind are remarkable for survival and will bring beauty into loneliness like the single rose.hug hug
The problem with loneliness is when you fight against it.

instead...

accept it. grin
Hugssss you all teddybear hug hug hug hug bouquet
Why are you fighting loneliness? Call a male friend and invite him out to dinner. Or invite a female friend!!

Besides, with a sweet Mom like you have take her out to dinner!
Ed
If you are introverted loneliness comes easily....I say this because some one who is considered to be an introvert usually craves alone time.... therefore only few persons would be qualified to take him or her out of the secluded place which is called loneliness.
Loneliness seems to offer it's own companionship. Be careful.
@ Proficiency1

The nice young lady is not saying she is introverted. She is asking should she fight loneliness or live with it.

She can do both. She can fight loneliness and live with it by taking her mother out to dinner or a friend. That eliminates any love affair. For me, a night out with my Mother would be a dream. But I can't anymore because she has passed away!

So, I ask myself, is being with a friend ok? Sometimes yes and sometimes no depending on my mood!!

You see, when someone asks by just thinking a little there are answers for everything.

BTW: She has a pic with her Mom and she looks so lovely I think Mom would be delighted to have dinner with her baby girl!! I know I do ...... and my baby boy, too!!
Thank you Ed and Proficiency, actually I m both introvert and extrovert so what you two adviced are correct. However all my friends and family live more than 1 hour driving away and busy with their kids. Those who stay near just want something from me...
Yes Rockingchair. It is dangerous
Ed
I am cognizant of that fact.
I did not address her. I was merely making reference to loneliness in general and a particular comment I've read.
Yes, I can see the scenario with "relatives".

It is so funny, I have 3 sisters left from a family of 8 sisters. These 3 have been a pain in my neck for years. They do not trust me which is ok with me but they do trust 2 nephews that are always in need. They give and give and the 2 nephews take and take.

It doesn't affect me one iota but it underscores your comment about "taking" relatives.
Hi, your photos are beautiful. Loneliness in an ache inside, it can come when we are in a crowded room, with people we have nothing in common with, or when we are feeling down.

I try and embrace my loneliness, and to paint, draw, garden and read. Many if not most, of my friends are grandmothers now, busy busy busy and so, I find myself on my own alot. I feel lonely.

If we fight against loneliness, it can make us go out and meet people [women friends ] and go into relationships that are not for us. Loneliness can make us settle for less than we deserve.


Many many people are lonely, very few are brave, strong enough to admit it, It is nothing to be ashamed of. As you embrace it, you will become happy, as you become happy , you will attract nice people to you. I promise. Hug from Dublin for you hug hug bouquet x
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