Posted:Fri Jul 24, 2009 8:18 PM CST
Profile Views
I notice, there are allot of people that get all hung-up over profile views. Profile views shouldn't have any meaning for you except for those that are followed by some form of contact. Scammers that contact you usually do not leave a profile view foot print.
There are many reason's why someone may view your profile.
1.Genuine interest
2.Finding a forum thread they liked and or that someone else commented on that they found interesting
3.Finding a music video they liked and heard before or a comment someone made
4.Finding an e-card you may have created or a comment someone made that they find interesting
5.Finding a poem you have written and or that someone commented on
6.Finding a blog you created and or that someone else commented on that they found interesting
7.Finding a movie you posted and or that someone else commented on that they found interesting
8.Finding a book you posted and or that someone else commented on that they found interesting
I can go on with many examples, but I think you get the picture. In other words, profile views can really mean nothing. It does not always mean there is an interest in you.
Profile views in stealth mode:
On the other hand, profile views, are a good way to get to know the person you are interested in. Use them to your advantage. If you don't want them to know you are viewing them LOG OFF and use the search function to find them and then view their profile, it will not register and you can view and study the person without their knowledge. View and study people, that is the only way your going to find compatibility. Viewing their forum posts for example will tell you what interests them and even when they are on line and what forum they are currently in. With some, you can even tell who they are really interested in, but be careful, you can also be wrong. Then if you want to show interest, you can LOG ON and them view their profile and send an internal email or flower for example.
Study profile views, that is the only way your going to get to know people. If your spending all your time goofing around forums and trying to get to know people, although I think it helps, I think your only using a small part of this websites tools and services to get better acquainted with others.
If you are not getting any profile views, then do some work. Create some blogs, forums, e-cards, add some music videos, books, or movies. Keep modifying and improving your profile. Make an effort, don't expect the opposite sex to beat down your door because you created a profile. Most of all, be honest, straight-forward, and represent yourself truthfully.
And for God's sakes, don't stalk or obsess over people. If you don't get attention, let them go, move on, "they are just not that into you." Let it be, there are allot of fish in the sea!!
Many want compatibility, their perfect match, and heaven on earth, but few want to put in the effort required to make it happen!
Good luck and God bless!! 
