How could you deal with these?
Being single for me is not bad. I'm getting more familiar with that and I love my single life now but sometime I'm getting so tired with some situations:For example:
1. When I need to see my relatives or friends they all ask me why not married at my ages! After that no matter what I replied to them they automatically trying hard to explain how important to be with someone and trying hard to instroduce someone who they believe would be good for me while I feel being SO MUCH annoyed for this!!
=> my solution is avoid seeing them! This can avoid being asked those crazy questions but this makes me feel so lonely in this world sometime!
If you were in this situation, what could be your solution for this?
2. I moved to my new apartment where has security 24/24 both at lobby of the building and car park. Saturday morning when I get my car from car park, one security guy at parking base asked why he saw only me driving my car?? I replied because it's my car so of course only me driving it! He continue asked where is my husband?? I told him that's NONE of his business!! Still he didn't stop and skeep asking if I live in this building alone??!! I told him again that those things are NONE of his business and if he asks me once again such inappropriate questions I will report to the managerment of the building!
That guy I think he asked those questions just with ONLY one reason he is curious! Same as many other people here they love to ask those questions to others who they have chances to see in their life.
I wonder do you have same problem in other countries or only me here in Vietnam has people who love to ask such crazy questions?
If same problem, what was your reaction to stop them?
Comments (4)
You are right to feel uncomfortable if someone keeps asking if you are alone or live alone.
Either he is interested in your or he has other ideas, not good ones.
Please take good care of yourself...you are not too old to still have a child, and have much time to still find the right man for you.