cebu26
cebu city, Lapu-Lapu City Philippines
Posted:Sat Aug 15, 2009 7:35 AM CST
times when nobody really understands you
there are times when nobody really understands you.... you take a a jump at a relationship and learn t give ur trust and then this someone turns their back... confirming your worst nightmare that most relationships are built on a quick sand.... so you vow "never again"
Being betrayed is soooo painful especially if you think highly of the person who betrayed you... its like you hanging in mid air and he comes and cuts off the only vine your holding.... the pain is so pure.......
rubendario
Hartford, Connecticut USA
Sat Aug 15, 2009 8:12 AM CST
If you haven't married that person, like I did, your in good shape, as hard as it may seem, get over it and move on, you still have chances and freedom.
Good luck and God bless!!!
cebu26
cebu city, Lapu-Lapu City Philippines
Sat Aug 15, 2009 8:24 AM CST
thanks for being nice... i really appreciate it... i havent married the guy... its just that as of the moment im momentarily imbalanced... but thanks... and God bless you too..
I didn't know you were in a serious relationship?
tonymhancock
League City, Texas USA
Sun Aug 16, 2009 1:15 AM CST
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tonymhancock
League City, Texas USA
Sun Aug 16, 2009 10:15 AM CST
I think it is exactly that pain that gives you the essential experience, focus, and patients to make better choices when it comes to the opposite sex. You can really start to spot the fakes.
findmequickly
Kyrenia - Girne, North Cyprus Cyprus
Mon Aug 17, 2009 4:51 AM CST
I would like to, if i may, say that one should drop all expectations in relationships. Also one should not for one moment believe that your happiness is dependent on someone else, it is not!
If you don't go within, you go without! Happiness comes from within ... nowhere else.
I am open to chat further about this if it helps you.
With love, truth and joy,
J x
donthaveaname
Limerick, Tipperary Ireland
Mon Aug 24, 2009 5:09 PM CST
I know exactly how you feel, this has happend too many times to me and I have retreated into a ball . Nearest thing I can compare myself to is a hedgehog. Get anywhere near me and I retreat...... so very sad!