Trust

What to do when your boyfriend has created a phony profile to spy on you ? He says he trusts me but yet spies on me all of the time .
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Hello Abby. Is this the same guy you wrote about once?

If it is haven't you got rid of him yet? dunno
--What to do when my girlfriend has created a phony profile to spy on me? She says she trusts me but yet spies on me all of the time .--

I wonder if that one gets the same answers :-)
Dump him.
He trust you but 50/50grin
Yes Daniella he's the same guy . I haven't been on the sight.then I use his phone to prove to him I'm doing no wrong and while on his phone I see he has a dummy profile . I love him but I can't get him to trust me . It's getting old and a lot of work with him
Len I'm sure it would be the same answer cheers
Olangoisland im sure he's reading this blog .the trust isn't 50/ 50 though. I trust him cheers
Abby, trust is the number 1 thing you have to have in a relationship..Without that what kind of relationship do you have?cheers
I couldn't be in a relationship where trust was missing.
Molly I try my best to show him I love him and want only him .he simply doesn't trust me .says he's gonna change yet he has a dummy profile on here to spy on me .it might be time to give up .wine
Of course he's not going to change.
That's like a wife-beater saying he'll never hit her again.
It's your choice whether to stay in such a relationship or not.wine
Abby, not only are you dealing with someone with trust issues but it's also jealousy..And that's not good..
Abby

I Have done it to myself ...suspicious all the time who he talking to and need some motive ...Once the trust became less u feel doubt...once you love someone you are greedy and needy ..you don't want his/her attention will dividemumbling
I have mixed emotions I love a man who doesn't trust me .thats not a healthy kind of love .i have a pit in my stomach I know what I should do .thamks Alitalia for your advise Molly bouquet
My home your are so right on both issues I know what needs to be done I'm just scared to do it .
Thats pretty sneaky and he obviously doesnt trust you, so unless your giving him reasons too? Usually its the one that doesnt trust is the one thats up to something or done something in the past,...........wine
Hello Abby,hug Trust in its own way is a sign of respect. Can t have one without the other. If he doesn t trust you on a chatline, does he not trust you when you re out in public chatting with people, or when you go out visiting,confused I have known some people (men and women ) ,who carry this not trusting people (jealousy) too too far,doh
Olangoisland I agree he's never gonna change .i can't believe he has a dummy profile to spy on me and I've done nothing wrong .i gave up all my friends on the site for him and this is what I get .hes always complaining about trust issues .
Usually if people have a trust issue it is because they themselves cannot be trusted, so, they dont trust others despite saying they do.
My NiceGuy reads the blogs.

He just told me that he doesn't like my current pic! mumbling mumbling mumbling

And I was like "WTH"?!?!?!?!?!?!

I Skype with him EVERYDAY!! And he gets to see me 'Live' doh
Scotty I'm begging to think your right .for all I know he's on here talking to woman .i think he's guilty and placing it on me he's deflecting on me
Abby, I know it's scary to leave someone but this is not a good way to live..
1 to 1 no he doesn't trust me I can't talk to men he's upset with the fact that I've had other boyfriends it all comes back to he doesn't trust me period .he says he's gonna to stop yet he spies on me with a dummy profile that's not love nor trust
Hi Abby,

Why all the bickering and no trust issues? Just give the person what they're looking for. Fulfill their suspicions by going ahead and messing around with someone else or others.

Just my advice. professor
So lamented I'm begging to see The Who,e picture now and I'm starting to believe he's up to no good .
Dream at her your too funny laugh laugh
Abby, I think you know deep down what you have got to do, good luck what ever you decide,........hug
And when your constantly accused of doing something your not, after a while they actually push you into doing something,...............
Scotty your right I know what I should do .hes reading this blog right now . Maybe it will knock some sense into him .i don't know hug
Hi Abby... how is creating a fake profile allowing him to spy more on you than just viewing you offline? confused unless he mailed you and you replied..uh oh
My home it's looking like everyone is saying he's not trust worthy it's not me it's him bouquet
I doubt it, the damage has been done, too much water under the bridge, time to move on and get on with your life being happy,.......................hug
Lisa that he would go to such strong lengths to spy on me is what worries me . Your right he didn't need a profile to spy .maybe it's him whose talking to another woman .wow eye opener .thanks bouquet
Abby,

I've seen many times where a couple splits up in not good terms, they feel bad about it, then when they find someone new, later they may say, "Wow! This is the most beautiful person. He/She is the one for me."

Then I ask, "Wait, but that's what you said about that last person you were with."

You see, if a that someone hadn't moved on from their last relationship, they would have never met the RIGHT one they are with now.

But then again, if you feel like sticking it out and trying to make it work, if you think it's truly worth it, then that is totally your decision to make.

Hope all goes well for you, whatever you choose to do. thumbs up
Shucks...forget I said anythinglaugh
Abby I am sorry but this relationship is dysfunctional and get out...
Oh boy...doh
Lisa your too funny hug
Set up a dummy profile yourself and message him an offer he cant refuse lol,............laugh
Scotty he has admitted to driving by my house .darn all is coming together now .im seeing the big picture crying
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