Posted:Wed Oct 21, 2009 5:50 PM CST
Tell me if this has ever happened to you
Have any of you ever had really weird sex dreams about people it's really inapproriate to have sex dreams about?
I did a weeks ago about my Anthropology teacher, and now I can't look at him without having my mind go straight to that dream.
If you've had this problem is there anyting I can do to make the dreams stop and the thought to go away while I'm in classs?
SweetAngelDancer
Tauranga, Bay of Plenty New Zealand
Thu Oct 22, 2009 12:02 AM CST
its only a dream.. most of us will dream
hundreds of different dreams' probably in our lifetime'
it doesn't mean that they will all happen~
hope that will help you~
hedistuff
sand fork, West Virginia USA
Thu Oct 22, 2009 12:15 AM CST
generally, it has been stated that oftimes we dream about our hopes and fears. you mention, "to make the dreams stop". were there more? perhaps you might inform this anthropology teacher of your really weird dreams and see where that may take you. you only go round once.
maxmate
Karachi, Sindh Pakistan
Thu Oct 22, 2009 1:46 AM CST
Yes, It may happen. Why? there are a variety of simple and complex reason that are deeply rooted in our subconcious mind. An exact diagnosis would be possible after a personality test and review of it's results. You may get it done yourself or take it online.
However, it's not a big deal. But I wanted to ask something. Did you ever, even passively, feel attracted towards this gentleman? Do you find him good looking? Does he dress well? Does he talk well? any thing you like about him. What are your general views about the kind of a person and teacher he is?
Eventually, there is nothing to worry about. It's normal to have dreams. Pheromones find a way of letting you know :)
Regards,
Max
how1e
cologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany
Thu Oct 22, 2009 6:24 AM CST
You havent been very clear whether its a one off or recurring dream. You indicate it happened "a few weeks ago" but then talk about "making the dreams stop". Im not being picky, its important to know if we are talking about one dream or the same dream happening many times. Once only is not very meaningful, many times probably indicates some insecurity, in your case possibly involving both sex and your teacher ! Confronting your fears is the best way of dealing with them.......
Alternatively there is some fascinating stuff on dream control (I cant remember the name of the book). But basically this involves training yourself to "wake up" in the middle of your dream..........I dont mean to literally wake up, you are still asleep, but you are completely aware that you are dreaming. This allows you to take control of your dream and then do anything you want with it.
gypsysoul
Bangor, Michigan USA
Thu Oct 22, 2009 10:52 AM CST
Next time you see him think of him sitting on the toilet having a bowel movement and picking his nose...or somethings that really bothers you personally, that should get them to stop!
Good Luck!
love74
liepzig, Saxony-Anhalt Germany
Thu Oct 22, 2009 12:07 PM CST
Maybe you find it hard to get over what you felt when he was having sex with you,seems the feeling keeps coming back when you look at him.If you have a boyfriend or someone then go and have a very good sex,i mean a very good sex so you can get over that feeling.You need another feeling to get over that feeling.
ketengel
Koror Palau
Fri Nov 13, 2009 6:04 PM CST
I just want to give simple solution to that kind of dreams.
" Yesterday was gone and Today is Today and Tomorrow is coming"
Forget about the dream yesterday. Just listen and concentrate what are going to learn today. Encouragement from your teacher is the most important for your future, not your dreams.
"Dreams is part of your sleep not a part of your class"
GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS YOU