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WTF are you talking about ?
What do you mean "interacial is easier" ?
"Within their own culture"..? In London we have black, white and all sorts, they all share the same culture.
Who are the "ignorant folk"?

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Mr. Howe you make me laugh so much sometime I almost fall off my bed, especially when you are not in a good mood and completely lose your patience with broken sentences with each word misspelled.

Let me be your ESL guide (or in his case maybe English is 3rd or 4th language) because a Shakespearian like you sometime cannot decipher things which I and Moonlove can.

Mr. Yellow was trying to ask “Some people believe that interracial marriage /relation is much easier to handle… like a black man marrying a white woman as opposed to black man marrying a black woman. In the end he refereed to himself as an ignorant folk who needed your opinion. This has been my best effort to decode his astoundingly profound inquiry.

prestidigitator1 .....

I read it differently, is he not referring to the people that think that interacial is easier as being the ignorant ones. If so, I would agree with him. It is difficult enough for men and women to get on harmoneously but without the added confusion of different cultures, traditions, religions perhaps, etc. I would think all this would make it even more difficult....

Herr P ! Danke ! Das ist wunderbar. Tu es formidable.
Yeah, thats really appreciated, but Im still not sure about his reference to "ignorant folk". Seems to me that he could be referring to those who believe "interacial is easier", rather than himself ? Anyway perhaps he will enlighten me.
Im gonna laugh when we find out that English is his ONLY language !!!!!!!!

Dear RDM59, Mr. Howe.I Read it one more time. Yes, correction’s made. You both are correct. My interpretation was wrong. But Moonlove can still have the final word!

RDM59 I agree with you completely. Could not have said it better myself. With that said~~~the heart can't help what it feels so if both hearts are in harmony all is possible and worth the challenges

Race is such a dead issue by now surely. What difference does it make? You like someone for what they are on the inside don't you?

Am saying what RDM59 says.

Although not well written, I understood what he wrote. An interracial relationship is a challenge on many levels beyond basic compatibility factors, that's just a fact, a reality that anyone should consider and take into account. That has nothing to do with being a racist. Anyone not taking into account(factoring in), any part of reality, such as a LDR, is in for a huge mistake and heart ache plain and simple. It's not rocket science.

Its really easy to say that 'racial discrimination" is a dead thing. Yes they are accepted and treated as equal by the society. But mere fact is we deny that there is. And we just realize, that they were discriminated until we read some stories about them, and feel a space of affection for them.

An inter-racial relationship is very hard to navigate successfully especialy when you have children. I have a mixed child and for a long time he was very confused about who he is. That doesn't mean that it can't or won't work, just that you have added obstacles and hurdles to climb. Just as in relationships from different social classes, religions and age groups. Not impossible to make it work, you just have to work harder at it. My humble opinion...

A relationship is an individual issue, there is not a basis for your assumption or datum to support what you have said.people don't date across racial lines because it would be easier or any one reason.There are many reasons that people date someone from an opposite race,could it be racial attraction? sharing similar interests? maybe intellect or the beauty of an inside person? those are some starters.I have been with about seven women of my race and all my relationships ended miserably and then when i dated a white woman once, we lasted 6 yrs, we only ended it because she moved overseas.How bout that? To me that factor itself doesn't necessarily mean all white women i will date will be as good as the first one nor would all black women i could potentially date be as bad as the seven. There is not a magic formula, one has to keep an open mind and experiment, there is just one world and to limit oneself in own race is fine if it is what one wants, for me exploration is the rule!

To me it's who I"m attracted to. I don't care what color they are.

I know for a fact that you can't help who you love regardless of the color.The problem comes when you do it for the wrong reasons.society will always have an issue with something,so what others think don't mean anything to me.My family is mixed with a lot of races and I wouldn't take anything for them.The way is to love everyone because we all are human beings.