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Please define "absolute fidelity".

Not only possible, but achieved.

If it had been,i dare say half of us would,nt be here.

I think Infidelity has played a part in our lives at one time or another but it can be achieved and its possible its a choice that's all you choose to do it or not to do it ,,,,does not matter how you feel when you give into the feeling that steer you in that direction you have now entertain the thought and have allow it to make a nest in your heart its a process that through longing and wanting and feelings and lust you give up the fight and give into it CHOOSE WISELY before it gets a hold on you

For absolute fidelity, I need a truck load of absolut

absolute fidelity depends on the possiblity of absolute love, and absolute love depends on absolute trust within any type of relationship .... and absolute trust depends on absolute ability to see your partner as the one you want to spend the rest of your life with and absolute hope he or she feels the same about you .... call me a sceptic but it depends absolutly that you have descent friends who wont try hit on your partner, and absolute trust of there behaivour ... filtering through all that and more you get into the realms of being soul mates and being totaly compatable and not wanting to see if the grass is greener on the other side... weather it be look's or money of the chance of not getting caught out tasting forbidden fruit .. I suppose its possible but in this day and age hardly likely ...
but if your looking dont stop, somone needs to keep the faith in humanity ... its a comendable goal. and somthing Im out to acheave ... Ive never cheated on a woman ever, and only had 5 relationships since I started dating in my mid teens .... and Im 40 now ... this last 3 years has been hard living alone but Im getting old and more women are chasing younger guy at 40 ( just an observation ladies nothing personal ) to me its rationalised like this there is an estimated 250billion + humans at least half have to be female ... I am just one man so its 125billion to 1 chance of finding a woman to pair up with good odd's yeah !

fidelity is definitely possible, the people who say its not possible are the ones that seem to have the idea that life is easy...just like you have to work at anything else, staying faithful to your significant other takes work also but in this case, it takes hard work in the form of resisting temptation and not being selfish, realizing that you would be hurting the other person immensely if you were to just do what you want

UNLIKELY. Oh I'm sorry did I shock you all. Chances are very slim that you will find someone who will be faithful throughout a marriage. Sex is the most powerful human urge. It MUST be let out. If they can't let it out with you they'll let it out with someone else. Be realistic is anyone in a relationship going to stoop to masturbating if they're not satisfied with their sex life? As a precaution here are some preventative measures:

1. Stay away from promiscuous women
2. Stay away from medium and above drinkers
3. Stay away from drug users
4. Stay away from the ignorant
5. Stay away from women with little self control
6. Stay away from the loudmouths
7. Stay away from women who are easily influenced by their friends
8. Stay away from women who are too touchy touchy with their guy frinds
9. Stay away from women who socialise at the drop of a hat
10. And of course stay away from party women.

<---never cheated, not even in the slightest.

Of course! You have to chose honest, honorable people and BE honest AND honorable. Don't be afraid to truly communicate. Find someone else that is not afraid to truly communicate. Honest, honorable people either will not cheat, or will try to rectify problems and if that does not work, they will leave you if they are not happy and fulfilled in the relationship. It is a matter of respect and honor.

If you are really commited to your relationship never will happen to you. Because you will keep away from anything that is not good to you...and you know what it is.
The problem is that 99.9 % of people "don't want to do it".
So tere is still a possibility.