Posted:Wed Oct 28, 2009 4:41 PM CST
I love it! It's so great.
It never ceases to amaze me sites like these are fueled by desperate, hopeless people who search for love with hopes of bright future! Either that or they are just so fucking bored they log on simply to torment others. What's sad is the statistics of the success rates of these said sites. Yet, we gullible humans still resort to them when we feel like no one understands. *sad sigh* I feel for everyone I really do... Actually I probably don't, but that's beside the point, because this is my blog!
And I can do as I please. What's even sadder than the hopeless souls desperate for a companion, is the degraded souls- like myself- that are either too bitter from personal experience, or too cynical to allow anyone else unmolested freedom to find happiness for themselves. So we result to provoking the sincere lonely individuals out of disgust for our own pathetic lives. Oh wait... I just incriminated myself...
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Wed Oct 28, 2009 5:17 PM CST
It’s very possible somebody is provoking others in a gentle way and at the same time the provoker does not have a pathetic life. His reasons could just be of pure entertainment value. I mean how many times you can read a blog “there are scammers out there, beware of them” or “I am looking for love, why I haven’t found it yet” It’s people like you who can write well and provide for some entrainment here, like the other blog you wrote but removed it right away. That blog could be somewhat interesting for people to comment on. Otherwise what else u see here? There is almost nothing here of any entrainment value. Even this blog is good enough to elicit some interesting comments. Please don't be so serious.
lovely4u7da
chicago, Illinois USA
Wed Oct 28, 2009 5:33 PM CST
WOW I am amaze that at 23yd you have experience such a experience that has left you so bitter and cynical and are not happy with your self that you can`t see how others being here on CS has made some at lease aware and a little better in human relations then when they first joined and there is nothing desperate or hopeless or sad about people wanting love in their lives and to expect a bright future it take more energy to believe in doom and gloom ,,,,,,,are you always tired
solost82
Half Moon Bay, California USA
Wed Oct 28, 2009 6:04 PM CST
I didn't realize that I removed that post, must've been a blundering mistake, leave it to a fool like me to make do so. I'll see if I can get it back up somehow.
solost82
Half Moon Bay, California USA
Wed Oct 28, 2009 6:09 PM CST
I stand recorrected. The post was not removed, it's still there for anyone who would like to see it.
P.S. Thank you for the compliment about my writing. It's greatly appreciated.
Englishman55
Cortona, Tuscany Italy
Wed Oct 28, 2009 6:48 PM CST
What on earth was the point of writing all that.... self pity, shame, self humiliation etc.
Get a life, stop feeling sorry for yourself and stop blaming others for your misfortune.
Life is what you make it... not what you think others are doing.
Grow up and get a real life
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Wed Oct 28, 2009 6:55 PM CST
Dear solo, it’s just a mental confusion I have that I want you to remove. On “your last man on earth,” I made a comment and you very graciously accepted the idea of dealing with adverse opinions. And in your other responses to the comments, you also seem so relaxed and far from being ‘cynical and bitter’ as suggested by lovely7/11-4u. So my inquiry is why this blog seems like an antithesis of who you are? I mean I realize that you included yourself in the criticism you hurled at others, but is it really how you feel or just wrote the whole thing for the heck of it? I am only asking you about the “tormenting others” part of the blog, the other part “desperate, hopeless people” …we all understand it very well. As I am posting this, I knew before someone will asks you why in the world u wrote this and somebody already has…can u answer both of us.
solost82
Half Moon Bay, California USA
Wed Oct 28, 2009 8:01 PM CST
Okay, first I would like to address Mr. Englishman55, I respect your opinion sir, but clearly you are a closed minded individual. I don't know what you were hoping to accomplish by directing cynicism of your own at my cynicism, but regardless, your verbal barrage of negative comments holds no weight. You didn't even connect with the broad points of this blog, let alone the finer ones. Water off a duck's back sir, water off a duck's back.
Now, on to my friend prestidigitator1's comment.
You are well within your rights to inquire about my personal contradictions, and it's a very legitimate question that you ask. Most people would understand quite a bit about me just by reading a little about me from my profile alone. However, even that may not clear everything up. I think it's quite possible that I may be insane. The only thing that deters me from this conclusion is that I'm the only one so far that has made this assumption about myself. So with all this in mind- and bear with me, I can get incoherent at times- I guess the best way to explain this, would probably be to try to keep it simple, in spite of how complicated I tend to make things. I was merely playing the devil's advocate with myself. In all actuality, I am a very laid back reserved individual. I also take criticism and advice quite well. But I am also human, and to be human is to err. And if we can make mistakes, can we also not be mistaken about what and who we think we really are? It's a deep concept. In order to prevent myself from becoming proud and arrogant about what I "think" I know, and how smart I may "think" I am, I degrade myself not for pity, or sympathy as some might suggest, but for self discipline. If I become what others cannot achieve or relate to, than I have accomplished nothing worry of recognition. As it is I become dangerously close to doing so just by writing such as I write. God's principles will always apply, Matthew 5:5 Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth.
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Thu Oct 29, 2009 5:47 AM CST
I like you very much. Keep posting something. The thing is when you put a new blog out, the previous is off from the main blog menu. Let it be there for a while for people to read, you can only do it by not posting a new one very soon.
how1e
cologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany
Thu Oct 29, 2009 5:59 AM CST
Well its rare that I am forced to disagree with Mr P.........and no Im not writing in verse........but is that the first cuckoo of Spring I hear ? Im even more concerned with your scripture reference peeking out at the end there, however I think you will find that if you go back to the language it was originally written in then there is a mistranslation. It should properly read "Blessed are the sheep, for they will inherit the earth". Just so you know.
sassysuzy
Larnaca, Larnaca Cyprus
Thu Oct 29, 2009 8:04 AM CST
I thought it was 'blessed are the cheesemakers!'
how1e
cologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany
Thu Oct 29, 2009 8:26 AM CST
And I thought you'd left this site ! Well its definitely sheep....Mr P will understand this.
sassysuzy
Larnaca, Larnaca Cyprus
Thu Oct 29, 2009 9:12 AM CST
I did, but I returned because I found lots of lovely new girly friends in Larnaca on here :) You're not a Life of Brian fan then?
pamyxxx
chania, Crete Greece
Thu Oct 29, 2009 10:31 AM CST
Maybe you should take up yoga.....then you may become supple enough to get your head up your ----!
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Thu Oct 29, 2009 11:44 AM CST
Dear Mr. Howe, yes, I agree with you, it’s all about the sheep, but if you really listen to his reasoning, he seems like a very cool young man. He attacked us “the tormentors" but if somebody writes anything with a qualification, it is really cool. It was an exception to the rule and I firmly believe we will not have any major disagreement in the near future. “Thee our disagreement is rare, future shearing will go on.”
solost82
Half Moon Bay, California USA
Thu Oct 29, 2009 12:54 PM CST
First, I would like to address Pamyxxx's comment:
I don't know how you meant for your comment to read, but allow me to suggest the possible meaning that I gathered. You said, "Maybe you should take up yoga.....then you may become supple enough to get your head up your ----!". So I deduced that since you said that I "may become" supple(flexible) enough to get my head up my ass by taking yoga, that my head as it is, is not already up my ass. In that case, I take it as a compliment. Meaning that my head isn't up my ass, and apparently it's where it should be. So thank you! You're too kind.
Second, Mr. P and Mr. Howe, you sirs are an inspiration. You have a wittiness that is unmatched. Furthermore you're not closed minded incompetent airheads. I may have left this site without further to do had it not been for the two of you. -I'm a poet and didn't know it. I amaze even myself. Pardon my pride. It's not even like it was that great, a simple one liner, any kindergarten could have done it. In fact I stole it from a kindergartner. After all- About the most originality that any writer can hope to achieve honestly is to steal with good judgment. - Josh Billings
I apologize for getting off track. Rabbit trails, they can be cataclysmic... Also about the sheep translation, I suppose it's very well possible that the word "meek" was transposed with the word "sheep", which in all truth sheep are meek, so either way you look at it, the meek sheep shall inherit the Earth, and from the Biblical stand point, we are referred to as sheep. Either this is to point out that we are actually stupid animals, (which is the conjecture that I'm leaning toward) or that we have to embrace the meekness of sheepiness in order to claim said inheritance.