hugom
paris, Franche-Comte France
Posted:Thu Oct 29, 2009 3:38 AM CST
When is the right age to get married
when is the right age to get married is it when you find a woman you love and if she says yes then you get on it or is there any good age for marriage ? please somebody help me i am dreaming
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Thu Oct 29, 2009 5:55 AM CST
Well, if you are on CS looking for love, I would say the right age is about in late 70’s given that you started looking for your mate in early 20’s. But again not everybody is lucky enough to find someone. Now back to your dreaming…..
date_police
Curepe Trinidad and Tobago
Thu Oct 29, 2009 12:32 PM CST
The correct age to get married will be when you have find a woman that you are willing to spend the rest of your life with. Remember the decision to marry her should be 100% yours. There are many that come and go but there will be one that you just really like. And if ten years down the road you get divorced, then it's not the end of the world. There will be special women still looking for a guy like you, always. The decision to get married is important, but don't think it's cast in stone cause you may have to make the decision again and maybe again. Always trust your decision, it's your life it's your decision.
hugom
paris, Franche-Comte France
Thu Oct 29, 2009 4:16 PM CST
Thanks man you are helping to get me on track
lookylou
carlos, Minnesota USA
Sun Nov 1, 2009 11:44 AM CST
I got married three times, all at the wrong ages. Don't marry at ages 25, 27, and 39.
hugom
paris, Franche-Comte France
Sun Nov 1, 2009 12:43 PM CST
lookylou carlos, Minnesota USA
47 minutes ago
I got married three times, all at the wrong ages. Don't marry at ages 25, 27, and 39.
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Hi lookylou carlos
I am sorry that you have married three times all at the wrong age of 25, 27, and 39 . does gender difference matter in this case and do you really think that age was the real cause of your divorce or is it that you did not care to save any of those marriages
i am sorry but i need to learn more
lookylou
carlos, Minnesota USA
Sun Nov 1, 2009 1:53 PM CST
My point is that age is not the decision maker. Think about where your relationship is and how the two of you relate. Don't stay together just because: you have invested too much time to break up, have not met anyone else more suitable, or have self esteem issues that convince yourself that you are not better off alone rather than an unhealthy relationship. Age is less important than emotional health and maturity. I would not marry without those.