My advice is you just had bad luck 2 times, same thing happend with me, but my problem was compounded by both women using the police to get their way, so my advice is to go after a different type of woman then you have had, also this might sound silly but look in magazines for the type of woman you want imagine a day in your life with her and let God make it happen. I know I was comfortable with hot looking model types who have bitchy personalities but that is what I was raised around and that what I thought was the type of woman I wanted. I have nothing against the police, God bless them, but I told each wife if you ever call the police on me we are finished, and like Job I got what I was fearing, so now if a woman acts like a beahtch I get away asap. Also I would advise telling women you want to meet for a lunch or coffee, that way they will not think you want to jump their bones, then let them invite you for a nighttime date. Also the first time you have sex with a woman never take her clothes off, wait for her to undress herself, and if she is really into it she will undress you, that way she cant make you feel like it was all your idea, God Bless and happy highways
