Posted:Sun Nov 1, 2009 12:54 PM CST
Dating and occupations
I read a blog about interracial dating and gave my own situation some thought. You see, can we have the same compatibility issues with occupations? I have married a musician, a mechanic/jack of all trades, and pilot. Is there a specific occupation more suitable for an artist? I admit if it weren't for his substance abuse the musician was my best match. Is it possible to have a successful relationship between an artist type and an analytical type, or am I over analyzing this. Also, I have had a lot of interest from Virgos. This worries me because they tend to be perfectionists, and I am not perfect.
This may sound silly, but deep down inside I am serious.
Any thoughts?
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Sun Nov 1, 2009 1:10 PM CST
My advice is to go sit in a chair and close your eyes and be quiet for 20 minutes, then God, or the universe or whatever you want to call it will give you a vision of the type of man and situation you want, it needs to come from YOUR heart, and think about what you will be doing for that person to make them happy, not about what they will do for you. Love is give and take but if you describe yourself as a princess you need to work on the giving part. I hope that helps
lookylou
carlos, Minnesota USA
Sun Nov 1, 2009 1:19 PM CST
Thanks for your comment. I am by no means a princess. A romantic, yes, but I am not a princess. I have given just about all I can in a relationship: a career, my home, my horses, my land, my time, my energy, my body. I never asked for money, material things, nothing, just acceptance. I guess I have a funny way of looking at life because when I was young and stupid, I thought love was the most important thing. I still have a glimmer of hope that I will find unconditional love in a non-abusive relationship.
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Sun Nov 1, 2009 1:21 PM CST
Or, she can take a trip to Mexico and be content like you, I am simply reciting from your HOLY BlOG, verse 6 plus 2.
lookylou
carlos, Minnesota USA
Sun Nov 1, 2009 1:23 PM CST
I will do almost anything for love. I will go to Amazon.com and order my Spanish lessons on CD now.
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Sun Nov 1, 2009 1:26 PM CST
Ok, I will make the hotel reservations and we should be good to go
lookylou
carlos, Minnesota USA
Sun Nov 1, 2009 1:27 PM CST
Are you a pilot, jack of all trades or musician? If so, I will have to give this some thought.
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Sun Nov 1, 2009 1:35 PM CST
I think he is jack something, the word does not come to my mind right now.......I am thinking hard.
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Sun Nov 1, 2009 1:35 PM CST
no to being a pilot, no to being a musician, yes I can fix a car build a house, etc, but I like to go out and dancing and riding a jetski, also surfing, fishing, but mainly putting lotion on you so you dont get sunburn is what I am good at
lookylou
carlos, Minnesota USA
Sun Nov 1, 2009 1:38 PM CST
You're getting a little fresh, mister. Are your hands soft or calloused?
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Sun Nov 1, 2009 1:41 PM CST
a little calloused, i am a man, but they will take away all the tension, and all your cares
lookylou
carlos, Minnesota USA
Sun Nov 1, 2009 1:44 PM CST
Presti,
What should I do? Are you still thinking hard?
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Sun Nov 1, 2009 1:46 PM CST
when i was in junior high school some annoying neighbor kid was bothering me when i was with my girl, long story short, my parents had to pay his dental bill
lookylou
carlos, Minnesota USA
Sun Nov 1, 2009 1:55 PM CST
Are you toying with me or being genuine?
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Sun Nov 1, 2009 1:58 PM CST
I think he’s an artist, he might be telling you the truth about all the love cures he can provide you. Also, he can perform a feet at least I am not aware of performing at the age of 44. It’s something remarkable. Just to doubt his ability, I got lot of flak. I think he is cool. Go for him, come back, and dispel all the doubts I raised about him
lookylou
carlos, Minnesota USA
Sun Nov 1, 2009 2:01 PM CST
So, I have your blessings and I should go forth and risk it all, but first I must get my CD's. I used amazon Prime so they should be in Minnesota in 3 business days.