Posted:Sun Nov 1, 2009 3:56 PM CST
Date from hell
I met an attractive lady in a bar helping a group of handicap men.
My impression was that she was a wonderful woman so I joined her. It was a cold evening and she forgot her coat so I gave her mine. Being impressed, she agreed to seeing me again. After a few weeks I had to go to California to finish my studies and asked her to visit me at my expense. We were both passionate about each other so she eagerly agreed. When the time came I met her in San Francisco. Being confused about what flight she was on I was about an hour late meeting her. When I saw her coming toward me I stretched out my arms for a hug and all she did was yell "don't f....n touch me!" Ignoring the embarrassment, we took a taxi to the hotel where I was staying. In the room she flung the suitcase on the bed and demanded what we were going to do and insisted upon taking a taxi to visit different places. Needless to say it was a miserable visit. After arriving back home from SF she was more relaxed and we decided to rent a house together. I paid for her moving expenses because she said she had no money.I asked a homeless person to help me move for $50. At the house while moving in furniture he mentioned that he just got out of prison for having a bunch of cocaine. My girlfriend upon hearing this, asked him if she could have some for $100. I was in shock and disappointed. Needless to say I left her like a bat out of hell with no warning. The last time I saw her she was walking in the shopping mall with some younger guy. She stared at me with puppy dog eyes but I pretended I didn't know her. She taught me a good lesson about first impressions.
RDM59
Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK
Sun Nov 1, 2009 4:24 PM CST
A lucky escape there, and hopefully not too costly a lesson.
But it is all about taking some risks and chances which you did.
As long as has not deterred you to keep on trying ....
ladychefkat
Montreal, Quebec Canada
Sun Nov 1, 2009 6:40 PM CST
Hi tisallme112,
That certainly was unfortunate but I think you had a lucky escape lol
Please dont judge all woman by here. There are alot of honest and caring women out there that are tired of these gold diggers abusing good men out there.
Good luck next time hon lol
Kathleen
Emj_wafa
Cebu, Cebu City Philippines
Mon Nov 2, 2009 1:19 AM CST
Charged to experience Mr... But no matter how bad the person is, still they have their good spot personality.
I would have left the *itch at the airport if she ever talked to me like that, you should have escaped then, anybody who would treat somebody like that at the airport, you should have seen this one coming a mile away.
lovely4u7da
chicago, Illinois USA
Mon Nov 2, 2009 6:33 PM CST
First dont men ever question how or why a women can be so ready to allow a man to pay for her to meet him and she has no problem with him paying for her??? And I would have acted like I did`t know them had any man talked to me that way in a public place with no regard for how they are coming across to me or others,,, that date would have not gone no further you escaped Hell on earth dealing with someone on drugs can be a nightmare
wow! that is horrible....but at least you didn't propose the day you met. my mother had that happen. she was on match.com. met a guy. he came out here on business and agreed to meet her at her church. he proposed that day and not even 2 weeks later she asked me to babysit my brother while she flew to vegas to get married....needless to say, it didn't last. he did a total 180 and treated my mom and my youngest brother so badly....not to mention the way he acted around me and my other brothers girlfriend. but glad you got out before it got a lot worse. you really can't judge people well on first impressions because most people change when they get comfortable.
Bratzgirl04
Muang Chonburi, Pattaya Thailand
Tue Nov 3, 2009 3:41 AM CST
i think you're lucky that she showed her true colors early in the relationship before she got you completely hooked. and you learned your lesson so consider it as a way out from hell!!!
JustWannaTalk
coatesville, Pennsylvania USA
Tue Nov 3, 2009 9:02 AM CST
YOU GOT LUCKY. IF SHE HAD BEEN A REAL PLEYER SHE COULD HAVE SLOWLY DRAGGED YOU DOWN INTO TERRIBLE PLACES. BE THANKFUL THAT YOU WERE ABLE TO CUT AND RUN WHEN YOU DID . THERE ARE A LOT OF TERRIBLE PEOPLE IN THIS WOLD , I'VE SEEN THE WORST OF THEM .
THAT IS WHY I NEVER BELIEVE A FIRST IMPRESSION !!! IT TAKES TIME TO GET TO KNOW SOMEONE, SO IN THE FUTURE TRY "TRY" TO GO A LITTLE SLOWER.
u_n_me_babe
Truro, Nova Scotia Canada
Wed Nov 18, 2009 7:27 AM CST
Why would you even consider renting a house with this lady after the way she treated you at the airport?????