Posted:Thu Nov 5, 2009 2:31 AM CST
Age differences..
Being here more than two months now I have to notice that a lot of people males and females are looking for relationships involving huge age gaps...
Ladies asking down to 20 years younger men and Gentelmen some times for 30 years younger girls...
Well looking back in my past my first serious relation lasted 9 years age difference 1 year, me 19 her 18...
Second relation leaded in marriage, 11 years difference me 32 her 21,one child, lasted 13 years...
Third relation involved marriage again, a student of mine, me 42 her 20, difference 22 years two daughters, we were in heaven for 14 years then inevitably come the end...
So the conclusion in my case at least is that age differences are not that critical for happy or not results...
I know a lot of couples in about the same age and their marriage didn't last, so we have to look for other reasons for braking up relation...
The fact remains though, does big age differences help or not long term relationships? Do mature females and males attract younger persons just being mature having more experiences in life...
honestalone
DHAHRAN Saudi Arabia
Thu Nov 5, 2009 2:45 AM CST
I don’t consider age difference as an object.
In love or relation, every partner looks for specific feeling, specific thing from the other partner. May me this looked thing cannot be provided by a similar age partner.
Some younger needs some warm, peace and assurance which provided only by older.
Some older need some activity which provided only by younger.
I am saying this because I am one who likes the stability and rest of older. this mostly cause missunderstanding from the others toward me
When I find the correct partner, I will not look to the age difference
solost82
Half Moon Bay, California USA
Thu Nov 5, 2009 2:58 AM CST
What the hell!? Is this big font crap contagious? What is with you people!? Are you really that insecure that you have to use HUGE letters to make yourself feel special and unique? It's people like you, that make people like me, write negative comments about people like you. Then again... If people like you didn't use rediculously large fonts, people like me wouldn't leave negative remarks about- Wait, what am I saying? Of course we would! There just wouldn't be remarks about your stupid fonts.
honestalone
DHAHRAN Saudi Arabia
Thu Nov 5, 2009 3:42 AM CST
if you have comment about the idea it will be better.
font, size and color is not the main subject, but you comment about them telling that your thinking is insignificant which make you leave the main subject and go to minor details.
and to know, when i write, i prefer to select big size and comfortable color to make it easier for reading and give the eye some comfortable.
if this hurts your eye, you can close it. dont think that i am sorry
aeropos
Athens, Attica Greece
Thu Nov 5, 2009 3:50 AM CST
Peace brothers between us please... no big deal to argue for fonts sizes... quite irrelevant I would say...
Redex
Wansbeck, Northumberland, England UK
Thu Nov 5, 2009 7:18 AM CST
I dont think age matters.
As we grow in life, paths just take a different course
Anyway we all grow at different paces so actual birth age is irrelevant.
No love, friendships, bridges, buildings, will last on untrue foundations
Danceincuba
Altoona, Florida USA
Thu Nov 5, 2009 10:34 AM CST
Age differences really matters. When I was 21, I married somenone 24 years older than I was. I did not want any kids with him because I thought that his future was over (he was only 45) and mine was just getting started. That type of relationship can work at the beginning because of the new idea of the age disparity but then reality sinks in and the generation gap inevitably establish itself. I divorced nine years later to marry someone 5 years younger. No, it does not last.
solost82
Half Moon Bay, California USA
Thu Nov 5, 2009 11:42 AM CST
No this is perfectly relevent. Font size does matter. It's probably the only worthwhile thing to talk about here! Mr. Bigfont, if Godzilla size font WAS easier on the eyes, and it makes the words easier to read, don't you think everyone would be doing it and not just you? Not to mention you thinking you can post your gigantic letters anywhere you please, and telling me if I don't like it to close it, annoys me further. I have the right to view this blog just as much as you. In fact when you use oversized fonts, you revoke your right to the same priviledges as me. Read all the fine print in the blog rules, it's in there.
Secondly, Mr. Aeropos, I read your blog and all the damn thing did was diminish any hope I had about some day having a successful marriage. You're like what... Ninety years old now? You went through three long term relationships, and needless to say, they all ended. All you did sir was add to the average rate of divorce! Basically to sum up your blog, all you're telling us, is that no matter the age difference, the relationship is going to end sooner or later. Uh... Thanks?
honestalone
DHAHRAN Saudi Arabia
Thu Nov 5, 2009 12:05 PM CST
Mr. Dwarf.
If big font size - this small, minor matter - disturbs you and represents an obstacle for you, this is because you are very small, smaller than font size. small matters can object tiny things.
Mostly small is not the body size but the brain size which left the main subject and stop at font size. Ha hhha haaaa.
You talked about your right to view this blog, o.k law man, rights are not exclusive for you. I have the right to select my font size.
You talked about every on doing the same and not only me, they are free to select their desired font size. And you are not the master or control man, you are not more than insignificant guy who was objected by big font size. Haaaa haaaaaa.
And because I liked you, I select the largest size I found. If the size hurts your sensitive eye and cause drill effect, it is my pleasure, Mr. dwarf.
aeropos
Athens, Attica Greece
Thu Nov 5, 2009 12:14 PM CST
Solost82 I have to add to your very true remarks that this is my life story it is not nessesary to apply to you as such, second I had some really wonderfull years with the above ladies and third and most significant of all out and because of these marriages, I have now three amazing daughters they adore me and all together hand in hand enjoy life at its best... so make your conclusions and act accordinally..have a good day.
solost82
Half Moon Bay, California USA
Thu Nov 5, 2009 12:28 PM CST
Your font's really starting grow on me, and NOT in a good way.
Congratulations!? You have the maturity level of 3rd grader. Doing things just to spite someone without good reason.
Font's are like parachutes over a warzone. The bigger and brighter they are, the greater the chance that you're going to get shot down.
Usually people that are obsessed with their "bigness", have something they are trying to compensate for... Basically you just made yourself look like an even bigger idiot than before. And by "big" I do mean BIG.
solost82
Half Moon Bay, California USA
Thu Nov 5, 2009 12:40 PM CST
Mr. Aeropos, I can appreciate that. I respect your expressed point of view. Ultimately you are right about it all boiling down to enjoying life and loving it for what it is. I can apply this principle to myself, and stand down my cynicism.
I'm not a overzealous negative critic about everything for no reason. Many people might debate this statement, but there is a point I'm trying to make. If people would just get over themselves, and actually ADDRESS the concerns of the commenters and explain their perspective, they would find that people would be much more willing set aside their previous antagonistic remarks and look at the bigger picture.
I wish you well sir.
honestalone
DHAHRAN Saudi Arabia
Thu Nov 5, 2009 12:54 PM CST
Mr. Dwarf.
you still tiny. your brain still doesnt want to be bigger than a size of font. a worm cannot pass over a stone. or you sank? really i liked you because i didnt visit the circus since many years and now i see a dwarf out of the circus.
kate3461
Hope, Arkansas USA
Thu Nov 5, 2009 3:15 PM CST
Well my thoughts on the matter is that age is in the eye of the beholder. I have been called a couger, and not in a nice way on this site, thats ok I forgive. Everyone has a preference, but some people think they have the right to judge others for their choices, or preferences, judge not lest you be judged. I prefer younger men, yes there is a reason I guess. Younger suits my personality, and I am more attracted to a younger man. I was married to an older man for ten years. He was bossey, possessive,abusive, and boring. I am full of life, I always have been. I will never settle into the rocking chair mode. I will leave this earth with as much laughter and joy as I have always lived my life. I have learned you have to make choices in this life that will make you happy, because if you live life trying to please others or fit into someones idea of how you should live you will end up not living at all... And what the heck does font size have to do with this topic anyway,LOL...
solost82
Half Moon Bay, California USA
Thu Nov 5, 2009 7:03 PM CST
Mr. Bigfont, even though your font is huge, I still can't make out what you are trying to say. Unfortunately typing with oversized letters does not improve your English. And since English isn't your strong point, you may want to reconsider insulting someone who's first language IS English. You are only making yourself look like a fool. You might also want to consider joining this circus you speak of. I hear they have a job opening that requires a man of your exact talents.
honestalone
DHAHRAN Saudi Arabia
Thu Nov 5, 2009 11:09 PM CST
Oooh baby dwarf. Is big font also reminds you the bad memories about big things you was hurt by, and this make you shout like D--? Keep shouting but I cant give you more attention.
I liked your theory about the relation between big font and war zone. This shows that you are multi talents and have expert about law, font and military beside your tiny brain.
Good that you still hear from circus, don’t cut the relation with your home.
You are amazing and I liked you, smelly dwarf.