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hi for me too i want find a good one too and here about for 4 months. just sometimes want give-up and wants sometimes

want have fun here, maybe tired and lonely but still love CS

Its hard to find someone that is your perfect fit. especially if you are looking for specific qualities such as a certain body type, level of education and job. i think most women will have to stay single or settle for less that they want. I find it so hard to find that person that complement me perfectly, and i refuse to settle, so am i doomed to always be lonely and searching?

you know perfect doesnt exciced at all if it did we would all be boring and the same.
you know if you open your mind to what is out there even the ones you would not have looked at before you would be surprised in what you find in them that is attractive.
it could be the way they hold you and make you safe or the way there look at you, the way they breath like as if there breathing you in. the way they stand there and agree on what you say cause they love it when you are deep in a conversation you have a serios face and it makes them want to scream and run with you so no one else can have you ever
dont ever settle for perfect settle for the one that loves you for who you are that wouldnt want you any other way
good luck girls there is someone out there like that for everyone i know i found him

It's not bad to seek a good quality partner but perfect is very difficult to find.
You should balance out the good and the bad and then take your step.
In your last relationship, Why did you fall in love? What did you find attracted you?
Sometimes we fall in love after knowing somebody as it can occur with the other person and probably you are not even searching.
Remember looks are not forever, but when you do find your partner be sure there is love both ways.As you said other things can be gone but love will always stay.

Good luck!

Hi anuna. .
Girl u r doing fine, u r making friends here and u r havin a great time. . .
I wish u find ur perfect half. . . He could be anywhere right now but i will give u a tip, good people attract good people and its the other way arround.
Good luck anuna!

Hi Tamique. .
Girl u will feel doomed and lonely if only u choose so. U could choose to be happy and actually feel it.
I know is hard finding someone to fit in, its hard to find a perfect shoes this days eh. . ? But how about if take it from friendship? Looking for new friends, being nice to others and be sincere. Maybe, from there u will find ur self a friend and a lover?
Good luck tamique.

Hi Isa. .
I am so happy for you. I wish you all the happiness. Yes what u said is all true, he would be perfect for u and u for him because love is presence.
What u said is all true. Congrats once again isa

Hi southmiami,
yes its true nobody is perfect and finding the perfect one is really hard. I too, would fall much deeper if he have a kind heart. I have been disapointed and broken hearted many times for falling to the outer appearance of a man. And both ways for me means, no matter where he are and what he is doing he is always emotionally available for me.
Take care southmiami

Dear Kasih, Thank you very much, your blog and comments on it helped me a lot. got nice idea

I'm perfect....I know this because my ex always told me things like...You are a PERFECT idiot...PERFECT Jack_azz etc.

I personally don't know if perfection exists. I firmly believe there is someone out there who will fit me...but that person, whoever she may be, will most likely not be perfect. Even if I can't find a "flaw" in her, someone else will always be able to, since everyone defines "perfection" as "What is perfect for them." What is perfect for me is not necessarily perfect for anyone else.

The majority of people seem to define perfection based on "society's viewpoint." (Where perfection is someone who has it all...the movie star good looks, money to waste on trivial things and material possessions that mean nothing, the perfect teeth, expensive cars, clothes, the "mansion on the hill..."...all the things that most people want so desperately to have, even though somewhere in the back of their minds, they realize that defining who they are by what they have is a rather sad way to exist.

I firmly believe as well that there is someone for everyone, if people choose to open their minds and hearts, and define perfection for themselves, rather than following "society's" definition.

Personally, if there is such a thing as "a perfect person" ...I'd define that person as anyone who is secure with themselves, comfortable with their lives, and open minded enough to realize that the only opinion of themselves that matters is their own.

Of course not. Relationships take work, and that's a good thing. It keeps your priorities in order. I consider my girl friend to be my 'perfect' mate. I'm thrilled to be with her. But, she's not perfect and neither am I. No matter how well-suited you are, how well you work together, and how committed you are, there will be trials. There will be rough spots and some disagreements and hard times. It takes infinite patience, understanding, and a lot of love.

Have a great Sunday Kasih....

Of course not. Relationships take work, and that's a good thing. It keeps your priorities in order. I consider my girl friend to be my 'perfect' mate. I'm thrilled to be with her. But, she's not perfect and neither am I. No matter how well-suited you are, how well you work together, and how committed you are, there will be trials. There will be rough spots and some disagreements and hard times. It takes infinite patience, understanding, and a lot of love.

Have a great Sunday Kasih....

Of course not. Relationships take work, and that's a good thing. It keeps your priorities in order. I consider my girl friend to be my 'perfect' mate. I'm thrilled to be with her. But, she's not perfect and neither am I. No matter how well-suited you are, how well you work together, and how committed you are, there will be trials. There will be rough spots and some disagreements and hard times. It takes infinite patience, understanding, and a lot of love.

Have a great Sunday Kasih....