losing hope

pesh121 Blog Post: Sat Nov 7, 2009 12:28 AM CST

pesh121 Manila, Quezon City Philippines

Posted:Sat Nov 7, 2009 12:28 AM CST

losing hope :-(

I have been a member of CS for so long that i dont remember when i joined.i guess a year or so and until now i havent found the one for me, I am beginning to think that online dating is not for me, maybe it only works for some people. I guess the distance is the main problem here. My friends told me that I have high standards, which I totally disagree, I think I just cant find the right man for me that I am really compatible with. My questions are, how long should I keep looking here in a dating site?should I give up?

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cunniligula oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Sat Nov 7, 2009 12:39 AM CST

I'll pay the shipping charges if you'll buy the crate.

maxmate Karachi, Sindh Pakistan
Sat Nov 7, 2009 1:05 AM CST

you might to figure out the real problem here. Perhaps you are too choosy like me :)

Anuna Ulan-Bator Mongolia
Sat Nov 7, 2009 2:24 AM CST

HI NICE TO MEET U. ME TOO SOMETIMES I WANT GIVE UP!

BUT NOW I AM JUST PROBABLY HERE FOR FUN KKK

JUST I THINK I LOST HOPE BUT HERE I MET MANY INTERESTING PEOPLE

AND DECIDED TO HAVE A FUN AND ENJOY IT!!!

awesomedude87 Gilbert, Arizona USA
Sat Nov 7, 2009 5:47 AM CST

Don't sweat the small stuff! Keep positive! always helps me

Anuna Ulan-Bator Mongolia
Sat Nov 7, 2009 6:14 AM CST

I am jealous that u are keeps positive

awesomedude87 Gilbert, Arizona USA
Sat Nov 7, 2009 6:30 AM CST

Its quite easy actually. I sing all the time, puts me in a feel good mood. Hence the feel good music

ShowNGo Tallahassee, Florida USA
Sat Nov 7, 2009 6:40 AM CST

There are many reasons online dating is so hard, distance is the main one. The only real way to get ahead online is to take chances. You can email someone you find interesting, don't wait for the man to make the first move. Look at profiles and find some that are somewhat close to you and go for it. Don't necessarily lower your standards, but look beyond the pictures and don't be so shallow, as most women are today. There are many nice guys out there, but they come in all shapes and sizes, and are not all "Ken" dolls. Good luck to you and us all.

ooby_dooby Ashland, Virginia USA
Sat Nov 7, 2009 6:43 AM CST

I took a peek at your profile and I can't find anything about it that would indicate that you are too picky. Maybe you need to change your tactics. If a nice guy looks at your profile, send him a little thank you flower. Guys get far fewer flowers than females do. It's just the nature of the game. Man chases woman, woman chooses man. It sucks but that's the way it is.
I normally would say good luck, but sometimes you have to make your own luck.

Anuna Ulan-Bator Mongolia
Sat Nov 7, 2009 6:49 AM CST

Sure distance is a main problem but I believe in my strong feeling

and hoping to find that good one for me .

just I believe strongly

Anuna Ulan-Bator Mongolia
Sat Nov 7, 2009 6:50 AM CST

Sure distance is a main problem but I believe in my strong feeling

and hoping to find that good one for me .

just I believe strongly

Southmiami1234 Tampa, Florida USA
Sat Nov 7, 2009 8:35 AM CST

I can't imagine that there are no guys in Manila not wanting to even send you a flower or wherever they come from.
You are young, so don't lose hope.
Participate in the forums, go over the pictures, profiles, sometimes we ladies have to make the first move.
It's better to find a good partner, making a good choise than just go for the first that enchantes you. It takes time.
I have a couple of friends here that have made it and are very happy, surely you will be too.

ShowNGo Tallahassee, Florida USA
Sat Nov 7, 2009 10:56 AM CST

South.....I like the way you think. That's what I say on this and other sites often. Women do need to make the first move sometimes. I have to be honest and say that it gets old getting very few (if any) flowers or emails. And it really sucks sending flowers or emails to NEVER even get a thanks, no thanks, or any type of reply. So, like I said earlier....go for it Girl! Email/flower a guy somewhat today.

RLML48 Charleston, South Carolina USA
Sat Nov 7, 2009 12:40 PM CST

Hey pesh..I haven't given up looking yet...but I do enjoy reading the forums and blogs...it keeps me busy while I wait...and when I get tired of waiting, I look some more.
Good luck in your search...and to everyone here as well.

virgosingle greymouth, West Coast New Zealand
Sat Nov 7, 2009 2:52 PM CST

hi miss Scorpio-Rabbit, you might want to raise your age limit and country, so you can seek to find the one true love you desire, a dog ,pig or goat starsign maybe included in your search