Posted:Sun Nov 8, 2009 9:35 PM CST
Kissing Bet
My BEST friend who is Bi (she's a girl) has been seriously trying to steal my first kiss...I'm not Bi, nor will I turn Bi, but I made a bet with her saying that if I don't get a boyfriend within 6 months...then she gets my first kiss. She's had a crush on me for a LONG time so I know this bet made her happy.
cunniligula
oklahoma city, Oklahoma USA
Sun Nov 8, 2009 9:40 PM CST
That's hot because God doesn't like it.
franklyone
Nelson, Nelson New Zealand
Sun Nov 8, 2009 10:42 PM CST
Come on, God's a guy, he'll love it.
Hey lovely, same as with a guy, if you don't wanna you don't havta ... but making the bet was a pointer, eh?
TeacherDon
Zhongshan, Zhuhai China
Mon Nov 9, 2009 3:23 AM CST
OMG! Kiss her and get a boyfriend. Life is not as complicated as you make it!
K2Jaye
Stratford, Ontario Canada
Mon Nov 9, 2009 12:23 PM CST
Well you might consiter her your best friend but she has a crush on you...So you have to look at it as if it where a man being your best friend that has a crush on you...I was in some what of a simaler situation and I had a very good friend she had a boyfriend but it was evedent with what happend that she was atracted to me...One night we where alone together and she wouldn't stop bugging me to kiss her so I did...Well it was very unfortunent what happend after that because I got a boy friend I don't consiter my self Bi...Well even though she had a boy friend and I had a boy friend she tryed very hard to breack my boy friend and me up...So Yes your bet with your friend would make her happy because you are alowing the door to be opend to her...You say that you are not Bi nor will turn Bi but you have put your self in a position to have a Bisexual experance and of coure this has made her happy because she desiers more then just friendship from you...Personaly I have all so had a friendship with a man that was atracted to me but I didn't share though feeling with him and eventualy we had to stop being friends because as long as we where friends he belived that there was the posabilaty of something more...So unfortunetly it is the same with your Bi friend and if she has been trying to get that kiss from you for a long time she want more then just friendship with you...
mjames
napa, California USA
Mon Nov 9, 2009 12:48 PM CST
if you dont want to do it don't do it. lets face it you are curious and also you would like to tell others to gain attention.
ChaJed
Jeddah Saudi Arabia
Mon Nov 9, 2009 2:20 PM CST
Do it just have some fun.
LovelySerene
Kansas City, Kansas USA
Mon Nov 9, 2009 2:25 PM CST
Well the thing is, she said that she would stop if we made the bet, that was the only reason to why I agreed to it. I'm not curious, and I know for a fact that if I got a boyfriend...she wouldn't even try to break us up. I've known her since we were the ages of 5 and 6. I know that this wouldnt but a single dent in our friendship.
Pixels
London, Outer London, England UK
Tue Nov 10, 2009 3:16 AM CST
Was that fair?
Davros
N/A, Ohio USA
Tue Nov 10, 2009 7:15 AM CST
hmm, now that sounds interesting..
K2Jaye
Stratford, Ontario Canada
Tue Nov 10, 2009 6:23 PM CST
Then why wait 6 months...If kissing her will aparently stop her advances tword you...Kiss her now and get it over with...
m8kuhappy
elmira, Oregon USA
Tue Nov 10, 2009 7:45 PM CST
Do what you feel is right.Really no body elses opinion matters,just yours.Good luck.