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Yes,today my dad will be dead 4 years,he committed suicide,at first it was a haunting experience that i could not shake,,but over time it is better,,you never forget,,but time does heal!!!

Yes, time does heal. But some people are so greedy for attention that they use every bit of drama that comes into their lives to get attention and to manipulate people.

Grief is real. Grief grows weaker over time and people heal. Drama goes on forever. People that don't move on...don't move on because it benefits them somehow. Just understand, if someone is not moving on...it is time for everyone else to move on without them. They choose to stick there.

If you stay with them and console them, you are enabling them. That is the payoff. Attention.

Yes Mary4b, time does heal the hurtfull wounds but the memories stays i guess. . . At least it does for me . .

Kasih Jakarta Indonesia
17 hours ago
Yes Mary4b, time does heal the hurtfull wounds but the memories stays i guess. . . At least it does for me . .


hi Kasih
The memories do stay, its how we deal with them that helps or prevents us in moving forward.
For me, I acknowledge the bad memories & let them go without dwelling on them, but draw from them the lessons learned & move on

The good memories, again, I acknowledge them, draw from them the strength, laughter, joy they contain, then I move on.
Our memories are a record of past life.
They can assist us in the healing & moving on, but we must not allow them to take over our current or future life.

Remember, then let go, for each day, we make new memories

what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger!

"Time heals all wounds"..we've all heard this...haven't we?

Speaking from personal experience..some "hurts" just never go away.

I am "southern born, southern bred", therefore it was instilled in me early to be a one woman man and expect the same from the person I married.

So...when you give all you know how to give in every aspect and
(God's Truth) remain faithful to that one for years only to eventually learn she's been "playing house" with another member of your immediate family and everything you've been taught and believe suddenly isn't true...How do you get over that? It's been over 30 years and it still hurts. So when you figure it out...PLEASE tell me.

My sister got killed 5 months ago and god knows that she will always be in my heart.I finally had that healing cry and I am here to tell you that it was not easy.Although I will miss her until my breath leaves my body I am o.k because I know that letting myself waste away won't bring her back.The thing that I have to deal with now is "how she died and what was going thru her mind at the last minutes as the life drained from her body.I know that she loved the lord and I pray that she asked him for forgiveness for any and everything that she had ever done whilst she was still here on earth.Now I think of things that she had said or did when she was here and smile because I at least have memories that will last me for the rest of my life.