One very important thing here is this.... when you get a divorce, the guy is no longer obligated to make you happy.
When I was married I was more than willing to do almost anything to make my wife happy, but when she took off it was no longer my responsibility. My ex wife's other ex husband will run errands for her. She wanted me to build her some cabinets for her kitchen. Some of us may be dicks if we do not want to do things for our exes.
I'm sorry... you seem like a nice person. Hope I don't offend you with my words. Here looking for friends not enemies.
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