mbcasey: 1. if I found out later I did not satisfy a woman, my ego would hurt worse.
2.I can understand that...but....
3.This one is why there NEEDS to be communication. Even number 2, if you aren't into having sex, why not just tell your partner?
When you're married or in a LTR,you can only say no so many times before something bad happens. So sometimes you indulge your partner even if you aren't totally into it.
Many women have issues with their own sexuality. Especially those who have had negative sexual experiences in their youth. It can take years to overcome these issues. And yes, communication with your partner can help, but it can be very difficult to learn to trust your partner enough to share things of this nature.
Satisfy your Curiousity....: click here to read the entire thread »