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I n my e mails to thhe ladies I always say and tell about my disability and that I use a walker.I also say that I await your answer or something close to itI would like to get some advice from themembers.especially the ladies.AM I coming across to you as to needy.Or maybe I'm to demanding.What turns you off and whats makes you want to know more about a man.Do you like honesty or ??Thank you all for your help and advice.Chip398


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O n behalf of all the gentlman of Cs I would personally like to thank the ladies for all of those polite responses from over the year.My favorite one is NO RESPONSE.My second favoriteone is thatall the ladies I write to seem to be in a relationship.All of you?????????????Chip


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I just got done reading Ships article on hoesty and his and others problems.Imagine my suprise to find that I'm not the only one .Why is it then that we can't find that one right parttner?I know for me I've tried ladies an hour away from me and as far away as ...whatever it takes to meet someone .I guesss I have a slightly new propect(right word )of looking around for a posssible match.Everyone have a healthy and prosperous New Year.Good luck to us all in finding that special person.Chip398


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I was dianosed with prostate cancertwo years ago.Needless to say my prostate was removed.I feel if I had this to my GREAT PROFILE(lol)Ishould get many more responses (get real).I'm not getting anywhere fast so one more thing will help.I know you ladies are looking for that special man to take care of you and that you reallyy don't want the responsability of being with someone who only has love to offer .Should I add this to my profile or not.


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I'm so sick of getting snowed from this site and all other that I think I might pull my profile .Out of the last three ladies that I thought wanted tomeet with me .The excuses were I'llsee you after Thanksgiving ,I'll see you in the Sptrinto I'm maybe going to my Aunt shes sick,to others .Guys has this happened to you?I guess even the ladies have gone though this.Should I just quit altogether.Thanks for you help.One more question please.To all the pet loversout there .My dog has two kinds of cancer (One I s anal and one is melonoma andhe has two toes amputated).His spirits are fine and he loves people,he responds to me real well.My question is when he does get worse when is a good time to say (and I hate to)goodbye .Thanks Chip398


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Ladies I've stated many times that iI have a disability.I also USE A WALKER to get around I wonder is that what's stopping you from contacting me and maybe other young men?Or is it basically distanse???I would like to know .thanks Chip398 I also redid my profile what do you think????? HAPPY HOLOWEEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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I am writing to two ladies .My problem is this .I think I mixed up their hometowns.Should I come and apologize outright (which I do like)wait and see what happens ,or what do you ladies and gents think I should do.I know Igoofed .Has this happened to anyone else when you right to more than one person.If it happened to you would you be mad,stop writng that person or what .Thanks again for your help and advice.You did say to have patience and maybe this time...?Time will tell.Chip398


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Hello people ,I thought I met a girl who liked me for muself.At least tha's what I though when I read her letter.This lady went back and reread my profile and said how she didn't think my problem was that bad.I wished her well and one day I may find someone someday.who will accept me for me ...I'll say it again WHAT DO YOU WOMAN WANT???Chip


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Not all of us are just loking for sex.I myself and looking for a friend .Someone who can actually carry on a coversation.Being together can be just holding hands,maybe a peck on the cheek .Not someone with a great body.For me ,Iv'e said this many times any lady 39 or younger is to young .I know I don't always say the right things.But I hope I'm getting better.Chip Y ou are a very fine looking lady if you don't mind my saying so.


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I feel so lucky I'm getting responses from woman.Either they're to young (18-33)or their to heavy.I'm notsaying thata woman cant be attractive either heavy or thi n.I pesonally have written to many heavy woman.But there is such a thing as to big.Iknow some people will call me names ect.But I'm trying to just be honest.Is that really wrong. Signed lucky


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I think m ost of us and I think even the ladies will agree how####frustrating this site and all the others are.Some say have patience things will come together.Ladies I'M NOT LOOKING OR A WEEKIEND FLING.I'm not giving up sometime somewhere .Instead of doing anything stupid the last couple of weeks instead of drinking or anything ,I went to the store and I have been buying some non perishable food and toiletries for our local food pantry.I t feels good to do something for someone .It also takes my mind from thinking about how doing this is a waste of time .It seems like if your not a perfect man or lady that yourr just not wanted.Yeah it's frustrating but who know.Chip398


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I don't know about most guys.But I do know that when I'm looking First I try for just getting to know the lady then if things progress maybe friendship and eventually meeting.To me something as simple as holding hands or a kiss on the cheek is something thats not a given.It happens when one person feels comfortable wit the other .Neither partner should push for anything the other partner does not want.


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You look pretty nice to me .From what Iv'e seen on these posts and from the ladies profiles most men want hotties.These men who tell about who their not don't want to lose out on something .I do tell the truth and I think because of that I'm mostly ignored.I'm not saying all men tell an untruth but those that do are giving all us honest guys a bad rep.Most people may not agree with me but isn't a big part of maybe finding that right person is by being honest .Ido put all of it in my profile perhaps you'll check it out and tell me if you like it .Have a good week Like everyone here says it takes time to find the right soulmate .When it does happen you'll know .It may be when you least expect it.It will happen .Chip398


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Hi Druidess:In my six yeras of trying sites (everything from dating4disabled to Yahoo personels)and only gone on 3 dates and one girl was seeing someone else as well as me and she told me her husband died not to long ago.Lo the many and beautiful answers that Ihave gotten)not many just trying to keep a cheerful outlook lol)Yuo can geuss I'm pretty disgusted.Yeah But I'll tell you instead of doing soemthing stupid or drinking ,I went shopping and bought some things for our homeless shelter.I think I'm going to stop looking and just stay in the forums at least here I get some answers.I think it sounds good me my dog and my family.I think I'm right in saying MOST WOMAN do not want a disabled man.I can't do a lot of things ladies but guess what I have love for familyand my dog help who needs help.and I just lost big time weight 43 pounds and am going for more .Oh to answer your question I am a PICSES.bye for now ,Chip


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Hi druidess:I'vbe been six years patient.I did catch one scammmer though..I thought she liked me and wanted to see me .I caught on when she neede d me to call a nunber to help her come over here.Most of the woman that I have writen to over the years from bbws to Asian to Jewish to African American have one thing in common.I've not gotten many answers.I did date one woman .She was heavy but very nice .I liked her and on day met her for lunch by me.Well I found out not only didher husband pass away not long ago but she was seeing someone else as well.I keep on trying but I GET NO RESPECT.Oh by the way I'm a PICIES.Also I have a diability which most woman WILL NOT ACCEPT.Oh well I feel like giving up exept for the forums .What do you people think????Thanks ,Chip398 So I hope you people see why Iget so frustrated and disguted in trying.


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Patience is more than a few days, Chip. May I ask...are you an Aries, Leo, or Sagittarius by chance? We fire signs are notorious for our lack of patience.

And watch out...those young ladies might be scammer profiles. Men are targeted too, not just the ladies.

Again, if you stop getting so antsy and relax, come on forums to have fun and make friends, you never know what might happen. Honestly, the times I've found the right one were when I stopped looking. That's true for a lot of people I know.[/quote Hi druidess:I'vbe been six years patient.I did catch one scammmer though..I thought she liked me and wanted to see me .I caught on whjen she neede d me to call a nunber to help her come over here.Most of the woman that I have writento over the years from bbwsto asian to Jewishto blak haave one thing in common.I've not gotten many answers.I diddate one woman .She was heavy but very nice .I liked her and onr daymet her for lunch by me.Well I found out not only didher husband pass away not long ago but she was seeing someone else as well.Ikeep on trying but IGET NO RESPECT.Oh by the way I'm a PICES.ALlso I have a diability which most woman WILL NOT ACCEPT.Oh well I feel like giving up exept for the forums .What do you people think????Thanks ,Chip398


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We'll you people said it would take time but I'm finally getting some answers to my profile.While some of you would say great the only problem I'm haveing is the ladies are to young.The youngfest lady from thePhillipines is 18,then Ihad a lovely young lady in a wt t shirt .She was nice but to young .Ihave patience but this is getting crazy.You all say have patience thye right one will come but when.Am I that ugly or got kooties or something?


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We'll you people said it would take time but I'm finally getting some answers to my profile.While some of you would say great the only problem I'm haveing is the ladies are to young.The youngfest lady from thePhillipines is 18,then Ihad a lovely young lady in a wt t shirt .She was nice but to young .Ihave patience but this is getting crazy.You all say have patience thye right one will come but when.Am I that ugly or got kooies or something?


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I'd just like to say to everyone to have a happy and safe upcoming holiday.Ladies how does one go about selling (for want of a better word )so that maybe you might actually want to correspond with him.Ihopethese are the right words.I'm not always sure of what to say.I do know that alot of the ladies say they find out more about a man this way.Thanks for your comments and hep.Chip398


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