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If you want my honest opinion on this matter - it's just like that because of the way it is dictated to us!!!

If men were'nt expected to be the hunters and women were'nt expected to be the prize then this cliché would never have lasted throughout human history...

How much copulating do you think would be happening if men suddenly all decided NOT to persue women anymore and simply hang around waiting for women to come to them? Not much I don't think - women like to be persued and they also love the attention that men give them when they flaunt themselves!

So it's only natural that men would give themselves a pat on th back when they score - afterall this is what society dictates for us. If it had been the other way around and that it was the women who went out looking for men flaunting themselves for attention then maybe this whole cliché would be turned around and then women would be giving themselves a good pat-on-the-back.....


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Sorry, yeah I know, it's just some of the opinions that I see that get to me that's all.

Another thing that get's to me are all these "men vs women" threads - we all know we are different so why bother???

If you want my opinion I could say men are given an awefully hard time by women sometimes - we are constantly being made out to be walking hard-ons who would say or do just about anything to get what we want, often with total disregard for anyone else! Women on the otherhand are made out to be the "innocent victims" whenever the "evil man" has his way...

Could a few men here maybe post a some of their own examples of when a women has taken advantage of them? I'm sure there are plenty!


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What is it with men and women nowadays??? I see far too much finger

pointing and blame-gaming going on! If only we could just accept each

other's dfferences life could be so much easier...

I just get the idea that the one always thinks the other somehow

has it easier than they do and this makes cause for so much bitching

and moaning it's just getting hopeless! If you need someone to blame

then blame modern society for making us all far too fussy and giving

us all too high expectations!!!


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When it comes to leading, I don't think there is a definitive age that could be deemed "too old", however I don't think anyone should be in charge of a country for more than 10 years! Human beings are not capable being responsible with practicaly unlimited resources or power...


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Ok, well it will have to be a hug with a firm double slap on the back and then a firm chest butt just to be sure it's not gay then lol!!


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Hand shake...


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Polish girls


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Firstly blush

Then I'd say unbelievable!!!


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9 out of 10 times that people have sex with their ex is because they had just been dumped by someone new that they really liked! It's kinda like girls going on a chocolate binge after a break-up, you know it's so wrong but you do it anyway for the immediate comfort...


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I look at how happy a person seems - generally stupid people are happier than smart people...


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Yes, had that before! Was especially frustrating that she was only so nice to me in the beginning till i opened myself up to her then the abuse started...


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I'd say most of us have ended relationships before because of something really annoying or unbearable we discovered about the other person later on...

I discovered the last girl i was with was a really bad restless sleeper, she tossed and turned a lot, sometimes so violently i got really scared of sleeping next to her!!!




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I'd say most of us have ended relationships before because of something really annoying or unbearable we discovered about the other person later on...

I discovered the last girl i was with was a really bad restless sleeper, she tossed and turned a lot, sometimes so violently i got really scared of sleeping next to her!!!




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I do agree that being between the age of 21 to 25 is a shit age for a guy to be for those very reasons, and that's why i'm glad to be past that age now!!!

Girls want a guy with some life experience and there's simply no substitute for that unless your'e very hot or very successful for your age.........


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Well as I said 5-10 years is a comfortable age gap for me. I could maybe push it a couple of clicks past that but I would certainly never go as far as a generation gap!


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Yeah it's sad isn't it, but I was quite impressed to see that a good deal of women on here said that it wasn't such a big deal to them to date a younger guy!

However I would never go as far as to recommend exceeding a generation gap!!!


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I have personally found that I get along better with women who are 5-10 years older than I am, it's not a choice I make to be with older women, but more often than not that's just the way it happens - I could be chatting to two women at a pub one being 25 and the other one being 35 and odds are that I'll be having a more flowing conversation with the older one...

Anyway the only thing that annoys me is when women judge me on my age before even giving it a try! I must say that happened to me a lot - before I turned 25 women used to dismiss me on my age alone, but now it's a lot easier to get in with a chance at least!!!


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Yeah I know it's like having your cake and eating it lol
Doesn't mean a guy can't dream about it though...

But I am a realist - I would never consider that's a girl's less attractive to me if she wasn't a virgin!

Statistically speaking - if there are as many women on this planet as men, then a guy could only expect to take a one women's virginity - if's he's taken any more then he's part of a very elite club!!!


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Mmmmm, well for me there's just something special about being the first guy to give a lady that's experience - I was only so fortunate once though...

It wouldn't really matter to me when looking for my ideal partner - but needless to say I think most men would agree there's nothing quite like being the first! It's like being the first skier down a slope of freshl snow, like taking the first scoop out the ice-cream tub...

Experience is not that important for guys, and there's nothing like something that's brand new


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I don't often rate photo's to be honest - however I think a good thing about it is that if you are too shy to contact someone you really fancy then you can give them a high rating to show your approval + if your'e lucky they might not be as shy and send you a thank you flower of something to get the conversation going

But unfortunately I do see a lot of ego bruising involved with people purposefully rating photos low to spite someone they may be jealous of etc.


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