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Daniel4021 Somewhere, Tennessee USA
Instering thread, I joined this site just before my 41st birthday back in May of 06, since that time I have seen just about everything here in the forums, major arguments (some of which I was a part of), relationships start, and fall apart.

I have gained a lot of experience about about people in general since I have been a member here, I have met some realy fine people from this site in person.

I think what we should ask ourselves is why are we here. Some say just for friends, some say for love, some say they don't really know. Yes it's true that most nice guys finish last, but at the same time there are a lot of nice girls that do as well.

In my life I have been through a lot of heart ache and pain, from my mother's death, to having my heart ripped out by a girl I was very much in love with.

People that know me in person and know what I have been through say they can't believe that because of what I have had to endure over the years from the years with my exwife, watching my mother die a slow death, to being torn apart from another relationship that i'm still a kind and caring man when most people would become cold and heartless.

All I could say was I just can't change who I am. My mother was the most caring, loving, and kind person I have ever known, I loved my mother dearly, I held her in my arms when she took her last breath, and no matter how strong I was, I couldn't do anything to save her. A part of her still lives on in me, and when people meet me I want them to see my mother through me.

Am I a nice guy? yes I am, I still believe in treating a lady with love and respect, openning the door for her, and doing little things that add up to big things, being sensitive to her feelings, comforting to her when she needs it, and letting her know just how much she is loved.

Some women I have met say they can't believe some lady hasn't snatched you up yet, well I always say you would think one would, but then why hasn't the one that said it snatched me up?
The ones that were single that is.

One last thing I would like to say before closing about myself, Yes I am a nice guy, but I am also a warrior, I am a protector, I am nice until there is a reason not to be, I am not a woman beater, never have been,I don't like fighting, but I will fight if I have no choice, especially to defend someone I care about.

Lastly, we have all been hurt in one way or another, my advice is to put the past behind you, move on and just let it go, learn from that experience, but don't be to afraid to give someone new a chance, and don't prejudge them because of what someone else did to you before. for those of you that are still young, you can afford to take things slow, for those of us that are older, well, we should be a little more willing to take chances since we don't have the kind of time we did when we were younger, not meaning to just jump right in, but move a little faster.

If you see someone you like, and are interested, let them know, the worst thing that can happen is they say no, or you just never get a response..


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Daniel4021 Somewhere, Tennessee USA
Been away for a while.. just thought I would introduce my cousin.. yes convinced him to join this site, he calls himself optomystic.. he doesn't have a picture up yet but it's coming.. got my sister on here too, her name is TheBabe.. Please give them both a warm welcome...

Thanks: Daniel


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Daniel4021 Somewhere, Tennessee USA
Arlene101: You are quite welcome and
I was watching a documentary about the Louisanna floods the other night and was overwhelmed at the devestation and You were on my mind.


Yeah, it was very bad, you don't know the half of what I went through, and the other people too, one day and you an email and let you know, let's just say I saw the worst in humanity during that time, very few of us stood up and helped other people...

Well, have to get back to work.. keep in touch, email me some time, I check in every now and then... take care sweetiehug


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Daniel4021 Somewhere, Tennessee USA
Arlene101: Ihave been wondering where you went. I take a break every now and then, I miss the old crowd.


Well, you know how life is, it always changes.. lots going on, but I do step in every now and then just to see who's still around.. good to see you, thank for the B-Day greeting...hug


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Daniel4021 Somewhere, Tennessee USA
rodolpho: I feel sexually harrased,wheres the manager?


Ah, you'll be alright... these women don't bite to hard...cheers


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Daniel4021 Somewhere, Tennessee USA
Arlene101: Daniel Hi there, long time no see!


Hey Arlene, yeah don't come here much anymore, was taking a break from work, just thought I would drop in..wave


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Daniel4021 Somewhere, Tennessee USA
OUTRAGEOUS: I was browsing through the different profiles, and there are quite a few that have really hot, steamy, sexy profile pics.

I was thinking that we can start our own hunk-a-ton and massively check the sexy babes here...

But since naming members is not allowed as per Forums rules, we can use a hint system:

for example: I NOMINATE the sexy hunk I found , 43 y/o man, in Concord New Hampshire, 5'9, very sexy pics... toddtu

Post your hint... or nominate your hunk

I'll gather the names and post the official winnwers later on...

VOTE, VOTE, VOTE!!!!


Just browsing on my B-Day, but you have to understand, I have won every hunk-a-thon contest i've entered, nobody beats me... lol


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Daniel4021 Somewhere, Tennessee USA
pisces18: This poll is to see if there are still hopeful or hopeless romantics who believe in love at first sight. Can love be insant and last? Or are those who believe in it just wishful thinking?


Well.... maybe, I met a girl where I am, things just seemed to click right off the bat, I have no complaints teddybear


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Daniel4021 Somewhere, Tennessee USA
Ashes: Why are you on CS?
I have stated a few questions, but am curious to get some answers!


Just here for friends.. been here since 06.. friends last forever, made quite a few here over the few yearscheers


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Daniel4021 Somewhere, Tennessee USA
RillyNiceGuy: I would be soft, warm, and mushy!


LAMO, gotta tell ya Rilly, you come up with some good stuff sometimes..rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Good to see ya my friend..handshake


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Daniel4021 Somewhere, Tennessee USA
sweetowen: Unfortunately, her mother's not doing very well. Since she cared for & eventually lost her father last year, this has been so extremely draining on her, both mentally & physically. I just wish I could do more for her.


I know, I have had similar circumstances, all we can do is just be supportive, and let them know we are there, believe it or not, it really means a lot to them.. I will continue to pray for her..comfort


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Daniel4021 Somewhere, Tennessee USA
sweetowen: I just got a call from cat. Her mother is not well at all. Cat is very upset. PLEASE keep her & her family in your thoughts & prayers!!


Ok, this is kind of late Owen, forgive me since I have been away for a long time.. prayers are given, hope she and her family are well,, but aso hopefully the prayers aren't needed anymore.. God Bless


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Daniel4021 Somewhere, Tennessee USA
g33kgurl: been hearing alot of happy endings/beginnings here in the forums but wanted to collate a list..... just to keep track..

anyone? anyone?


Not dating anyone here from cs, gave up on trying to find anyone here anymore,, but I am dating a very nice lady I met in person where I live, and things are wonderful..smitten


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Daniel4021 Somewhere, Tennessee USA
kissmedeeply: Okay bro can you write me an email..so you dont
have to put it all out here on the forums


I will Sis, just not tonight, maybe in the morning before I go to work, wasn't going to post what happened.. anyway going to log off, YOu take care Sis, love you, and tell Eric I said hello, miss you both, looking forward to seeing both of you this summer..hug


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Daniel4021 Somewhere, Tennessee USA
kissmedeeply: you have always been here
for me..through good/bad..thank you agian..such a great man..

Love ya


Means alot sis, you just don't know how much, I had a lot of evil done to me over the new year, here I am in a new place, well kinda new, I was hurt bad, not physically, but my heart, I just don't understand it Sis, I just don't, I don't know what to do anymore, but yet I can't change who I am, I cried over this, and it is still hurting me, I have tried to let it go, but I can't help it, I don't know what to do anymore..


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Daniel4021 Somewhere, Tennessee USA
kissmedeeply: love you to bro


You have been a good sister, stood by me through thick and thin, hey what kind of brother would I be if I wasn't around for my sis..cheers


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Daniel4021 Somewhere, Tennessee USA
kissmedeeply: iknow bro..i turned
44 in july 2008,,will be 45 soon

My son birthday is in may as well the 25th


It's all good sis, we never grow old, we just get better..hug Love you sis


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Daniel4021 Somewhere, Tennessee USA
kissmedeeply: yes hopefully by May..would be nice to
see you


Yeah, I have a birthday comming up in May, looking at the big 44
moping ah well I get better with age..head banger applause


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Daniel4021 Somewhere, Tennessee USA
lusciousmile: I know what you mean, Daniel.


Happens to all of us doesn't it..doh


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Daniel4021 Somewhere, Tennessee USA
kissmedeeply: hello bro...

i have missed you..


Hey Sis, missed you too, I am going to Canada this summer, Eric says the two of you should be there, going to look you up..


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