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trish123: can you see the human face in this one?

javealady: I definitely agree with that one. I find it offensive when people are walking round the shops in their swim trunks and bikinis. Fine for the beach but not what you want to see when you are doing your grocery shopping!

mandy_lynn26: Ok get this. Im 26 with three boys, and I get this email from this really cute guy and hes like, " Your so cute, I love kids, I wanna get to know you, blah blah". Well, im really excited because after all I dont get 100 emails a day. I pull up his profile and hes smokin hot but hes only 20 years old. Im like ok this shit is a joke from some kid trying to be funny. I already have a hard time finding someone as it is and this punk kid comes along and tries to be funny. Well, I politely write him back and tell him, "I would love to talk to you but do you know how old I am?" Long story short, we ended up talking for a couple weeks and hit it off really well. It only lasted that long cause he started talking about marriage and kids. I had to let him down gently. But I guess my questions are how young is to young or old is to old for a couple? Or does it really matter as long as you feel that attraction? and someone with kids like me should I look for someone around my age and maturity? I dont like drama! I just want to be loved

kissmedeeply: If i was a woman 45 which i am..and 20 some was interested in me..Hell NOooooooooooo

scorpiosiren: well the only thing to do is sit down and tell her what u want from this if she agrees happy days if not at least u didnt start something that had to end

scorpiosiren: why not, if ur interested why shud age come into it?
and she has already accepted ur 3 kids
love comes in all shapes sizes and ages

Brian67: Well nothing wrong with being a dirty old man So have fun get allot of Viagra and when she`s no longer interesting or starting to coast you $$$$ to maintain then you can always dump her and fined a newer improved model.

ihateusernames: well dragon, you should go for it. what have you go to lose?

southmiami: That's almost a quarter of a century difference. In ten years from now you will be in you mid 50s' and she in her mid 30s' and probably having three more kids.....
Look what man does not like a young female???
Haven't you experienced a lot already for your age why not try settling down with some one your age or a little bit younger??
It's up to you, your decision I would never date someone that is that younger than me. My answer is no.

waterborn: Not exactly the same ages, but in general, I've been there, done that.

Together for 3 years; it was lovely at first. We got engaged, had a daughter, but lost the relationship when the age gap became too apparent. What got me through this in the end was the understanding that one should not cry because something's over, but to smile because it happened at all!

Seriously, at 20, you have really got to ask: 'what's in it for her?' I know only too well what was in it for me - both good and bad!

So, I can not caution strongly enough to avoid taking up the offer if you want something long term. Chances are, it will NOT turn out the way you hope. By the way, ignore the shotgun threats, In my case, her dad is still a friend.

RobertC2: Not seriously........only for a sexual liasion.

Kristine1: No the older guy was never any more than a boyfriend of several years we never had kids, my ex is the guy I just got out of a 7 year relationship with and we have a child together.