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Elley Cadiz, Andalucia Spain
In response to: all the women in Andalucia are way up the coast on the Costa del Sol a million miles from where I am ? Are they all rich widows or divorcees, resident,colonial non- adaptors, bounty hunters or what ? There has to be a reason why so many are all located in such a small area
I think it is a mix of all that I said,tho in the main the English are not famous for integration.The Costa del Sol is an English colony.


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Elley Cadiz, Andalucia Spain
u2Kitty: So the Malta thing...

For living or just visiting

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Elley Cadiz, Andalucia Spain
rossidanny: I only have one new year resolution and that is to make more of an effort to improve my spanish!!
Good man


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Elley Cadiz, Andalucia Spain
all the women in Andalucia are way up the coast on the Costa del Sol a million miles from where I am ? Are they all rich widows or divorcees, resident,colonial non- adaptors, bounty hunters or what ? There has to be a reason why so many are all located in such a small areadunno


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Only three per person. Mine are to get to Malta,to get rich and to get laid,shallow I know but I,m tired of being deep and meaningful,philanthropic and poor and bored and boring. So peeps....?wave


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venere08: Sadly, I have heard so many similar stories.

I can't comprehend why any woman/parent would do that to their child, for the sake of some misguided, immature sense of reprisal towards the other??? I ti s so, so unforgivable to the child and the other parent.

I have a friend whose son is in such a position. His ex has relocated from Brisbane to Japan, tkaing their only child, a 7yr old boy, with her. And all because the ex has now clearly found himself some happiness with another.
Fraid some women use their kids as weapons. What pisses me off is they were the ones who had an affair,so I was punished for something that they did,not me. Sick minds. Anyway enough of that crap,tis Christmas and all is well,cept the little monkey just beat me at footy on the Playstation I got him.rolling on the floor laughing very mad


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Elley Cadiz, Andalucia Spain
One other thing...fight for your kids, but never ever fight in front of them and never ever say anything bad about the mother to them or in front of them no matter how bad she may be and tempting as it is,it,ll backfire on you and damage your kids. Sometimes ya gotta eat shit to protect them,but it will come good in the end.thumbs up


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Ps: You gotta fight like hell but learn to take a lot of knocks on the chin. The kids know whats going on but dont want to rock the boat. Dont worry, it all gets put right in the end, but you gotta be in it for the long haul and have the patience of Job. Merry Crimbo. Just try to enjoy your kids and fight for them like your life depended on it.thumbs up


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Phoenix: Straight Q.......

Denying acess??? Such as? You've arranged it before hand.

In a nutshell... The judge says you can pick your kid/s up on a certain date, between a certain time..You go and for reasons that defi logic no one is home...You go to the local cop shop to press charges and they (boys in blue) do all the neccessary paperwork..Then a few weeks later you get a letter from the DPC saying ..'fcuk you sonny...no charge. The mother is right, even if she is wrong...'
Is that the French or uk ? Took my uk ex to court many times all to no avail. Tried to get a court order,judge wouldnt give it on the basis that if he did and she disobeyed it she would have to be punished with a fine or time in nick,both of which would hurt the kids. Women know these things and take full advantage and in my case fill the kids heads with nasty little lies like your dad doesnt want you,tis a crock of shit. Worse, I agreed a division of assets very heavily weighed in her favour due to the fact that because of the effects of her affair I lost my job and had no income. Soon as it was all signed off and I got a very low paying job,she was earning,ten times more than me she got the CSA on to me and those heartless, idiots drove me to the very edge trying to make out I was earning a pilots salary delivering pizzasrolling on the floor laughing All in the past now. I,m good.BTW this is what they call loverolling on the floor laughing


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Elley Cadiz, Andalucia Spain
Phoenix: Enjoy it Elley....Fair play to you. I reckon you'll have a fantastic week..So will your mucker.
Thanks matecheers


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venere08: That's wonderful, Elley. A very special time for you both, no wonder you're so excited. At teh age of 8, a boy really bonds with his dad. My son never had his father around when he needed him, in fact, would refuse most opportunities to spend time with his son even though it was offered to him on a platter. So it's particularly heartwarming to know the very opposite can and does happen.
Well my first ex did a very good job of denying me contact with my kids from that marriage for no good reason and the uk legal system was a toothless tiger.I do hold the uk law partly responsible for our lost years. Still I got them back in the end and we are all good. In Spain the second ex tried the self same trick,but in this respect at least the law here is a lot more supportive. Still I had to fight for him tooth and nail,but he,s worth it and more, I would die for him and without him. He really is a joy. My little man. Anyway thanks.kiss


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Thalassa: I don't recall ever communicating with you on the Forums, Elley, but I do want to do so now. I wish you a very Merry Christmas with your son. Have the best possible time together!
Well I recently read one of your posts on the the other side and it was a beacon of light in the fog and it did appear to lead a slightly lost member away from the rocks into clearer waters. That takes a lot of skill,control and sensitivity. We may not mention it,but some of us do notice these things. So well done and merry christmas.cheers


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Nina3: Although no need to explain yourself here, thanks for doing so anyway.

Hope you have a wonderful week with your son!

Merry Christmas!
PS.
There is no back door...
There IS a back door,but I aint saying where it is cause there,ll be a stampede. Feliz Navidad Ninawave


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PS: Next time I,ll just go hide or try to slip out the back door un-noticed,promisegrin


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Ok let me explain...I left for reasons stated and a lot more besides. Then I came back due to lots of folks saying please dont go and I was so touched I decided to come back,never realised quite how well thought of I was. Then I had some misunderstood contact with somebody in private,dont ask cause I aint tellinggrin The misunderstanding was cleared up and so I came back again to maintain contact with this person. Apologies to all for my jack in the box antics. And now I have to go get the house and things ready for a very special person,my 8 year old son who is with me for a week from tonight. I am as excited as he is. applause I know many of you,like me,have a difficult even lonely and sad time at Christmas,but things do get better believe me. There was a time not too long ago when I was so so alone and depressed I just didnt see the point of going on. I had to fight that and it was not easy. Now I am past all that thank god. So to all those for whom this period simply means sadness and more, it does get better,more than you can concieve. To the rest of you, Merry Christmas and a happy New Yearcheers


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Elley Cadiz, Andalucia Spain
Tis a scam when she is....

....stunning and way way out of your age range (why would a twenty five year old stunner who could pull any guy she likes want to start something with an old fart like me) ?

....she says she finds your profile very interesting when,if like me,you deliberately put fuck all in it to be interesting.laugh

....her profile starts " I the nice girl of your dreams...."

....thousands of miles away,not even on the same continent.What like America has run out of decent guys,don,t think so.grin

For more info read the CS guide to scammers.If you get one just call it in.cheers


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Elley Cadiz, Andalucia Spain
well I think the whole CS thing is either some fat controller who has invented all its inhabitants meaning nobody is real,self included, with the MO to disseminate civil unrest among real net users: or everybody is real and it is an alien controlled experiment in human social excess. Fat Controller,merry xmas,mister alien,nanu nanu.wine


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Elley Cadiz, Andalucia Spain
Re the comment that there arent any Spanish coaches other than Pep Guardiola and Rafa Benitezlaugh what about Luis Arragones under whome Spain thrashed everyone just last year ? Or Vicente Bosque ex manager of Madrid and now manager of the national side ? Or Vigo Estaban who not only saved Jerez from dropping from the 2nd to the 3rd, but also got them into the premier for the first time ever,after 62 years of waiting, with a team of vets,kids and loaned wannabes. The club,debt laden now lies bottom, Vigo gone. Anway, an amazing achievement gone un noticed outside of Spain.applause


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Elley Cadiz, Andalucia Spain
Feck me, I.m like that guy they used to call the vacuum cleaner,walks into a room an sucks the atmosphere right out of the place. I walk in and everyone walks right out.grin


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