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Hugz_n_Kissez
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Posted: Today, 12:24 AM CST
The Invitation....


~by Oriah Mountain Dreamer~

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.

It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain!I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it, or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see beauty even when it's not pretty, every day,and if you can source your own life from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, “Yes!”

It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children.

It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.


copyright © 1999


teddy bear


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Hugz_n_Kissez
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Posted: Yesterday, 11:59 PM CST
StressFree wrote:
What's your style of seduction?..



I don't have one....rolling eyes uh oh! dunno grin D'oh!


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Hugz_n_Kissez
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Posted: Yesterday, 11:53 PM CST
StressFree wrote:
I like your style...



Thanx...that's just my style of debate...wave wink hug teddy bear hug bouquet of flowers


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Hugz_n_Kissez
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Posted: Yesterday, 11:47 PM CST
StressFree wrote:
It seems like you are really projecting a" I'm right your wrong" post here bodhi?

Accept things as they are...why are you not accepting Hugz n Kisses stance? Because she cited some quotes? I just saw her posts as as her way of trying to raise a valid argument that she has...

Can you clear this up if I have it wrong please....



Well I did have several of my own original arguments back further on the thread...so yes you're right...I merely used to quotes to back up those arguments....wink wave hug teddy bear hug bouquet of flowers


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Hugz_n_Kissez
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Posted: Yesterday, 11:43 PM CST
Galactic_bodhi wrote:
No. You're not. There's always tomorrow. Another day, another crusade. BFN...



Well if I can use my skills to help in some way...then yes you're right...I will....wink wave hug teddy bear hug bouquet of flowers grin


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Hugz_n_Kissez
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Posted: Yesterday, 11:40 PM CST
Galactic_bodhi wrote:
Your ego, your time. I'll not waste mine attempting the fruitless endeavor you seem to enjoy...



Oh I'm done...I've given all the info I can give...that's all I was doing...so I am finished....wink


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Hugz_n_Kissez
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Posted: Yesterday, 11:39 PM CST
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
No...it wasn't about winning nor was it personal...it was about my inability to be able to stand ignorance...and how people take myths as the truth without even trying to educate themselves first...I used cut and paste because I don't know the Bible or the Qua'ran off by heart...and just using words without some facts to back them up...wasn't working because I supposedly didn't know what I was talking about...and nobody died and made me crusader...this what I do for a living...I deal with injustice and have personally seen how racism and discrimination effects people and situations...so if I can help in any way...even through a bit of education...then I will...that's just me!!!!!Because to me...Racism and discrimination are two of the ultimate injustices...



I'll just say...I am a doer...and if everyone sits back and just does nothing...How do we make changes where they need to be made...That's my philosophy....and I am quite happy doing that...wink


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Posted: Yesterday, 11:34 PM CST
Galactic_bodhi wrote:
Yes, they are, because ultimately your agenda is personal, so the ego wins out regardless. That is the ultimate strawman...

"It's my duty to enlighten..." No your "duty" is to be happy and know love, and that can only be done with the diminishing of ego. Who died and made you crusader? Ignorance cannot stand the light of day. Be that day. When you sink to their level, you've already lost...

This thread is about class. Cut and paste is not class. Quotes are scarecrows for what you're really trying to say: "I"m right, you're wrong". This is what they do. Be original. Turn the other cheek, accept things as they are, and make your own little corner a little brighter.

JMHO, shell.



No...it wasn't about winning nor was it personal...it was about my inability to be able to stand ignorance...and how people take myths as the truth without even trying to educate themselves first...I used cut and paste because I don't know the Bible or the Qua'ran off by heart...and just using words without some facts to back them up...wasn't working because I supposedly didn't know what I was talking about...and nobody died and made me crusader...this what I do for a living...I deal with injustice and have personally seen how racism and discrimination effects people and situations...so if I can help in any way...even through a bit of education...then I will...that's just me!!!!!


Because to me...Racism and discrimination are two of the ultimate injustices...wave wink hug teddy bear hug bouquet of flowers


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Hugz_n_Kissez
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Posted: Yesterday, 11:28 PM CST
Dusty45 wrote:
You did a rather admirable job at that. I was very impressed, but then, I didn't need any convincing. Education and information that is true and of real value is vitally important. TY.



Yeah some don't need convincing..others just want to stay wrapped up in their own little belief system and not look beyond it...but now they can't say they don't know....wave wink hug teddy bear hug bouquet of flowers


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Hugz_n_Kissez
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Posted: Yesterday, 11:24 PM CST
Dusty45 wrote:
Hard work and dedication pay off after all but like I've heard Bodhi say "the race is eternal". I would go
so far as to say it's not even a race.


True...but the key to racism and discrimination is education...for those who choose to be educated that is...so...nope...no race...just using the key properly!!!!!!!




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Posted: Yesterday, 11:22 PM CST
Galactic_bodhi wrote:
There is no contest dusty, its all strawman and ad hominem. And the prize is an incinerated planet formerly known as Earth...



My arguments weren't...they are based on sound information...to dispel the myths of all Muslims being terrorists...or all Muslims who read the Qua'ran because it has violent verses the same as the bible are terrorists....now yes I had to use text from there to dispel that argument because nothing else was working...to show the similarities rather than the differences between the Quar'an and the bible...because the violent versus are the only ones people seem to want to concentrate on...yet they are ignored when it comes to the bible....wink wave hug teddy bear hug bouquet of flowers


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Posted: Yesterday, 11:14 PM CST
Dusty45 wrote:
So, have we come to some kind of conclusion about who is the winner, yet?

Who won the contest? And, what is the prize?



Hey darlin...I would like to think some education won out on the side of ignorance...and the prize is enlightenment!!!!!!!!!!


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Posted: Yesterday, 11:12 PM CST
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Posted: Yesterday, 11:11 PM CST
tinymac wrote:
evening all

from wikepedia
After four years in New York City, Obama moved to Chicago to work as a community organizer for three years from June 1985 to May 1988 as director of the Developing Communities Project (DCP), a church-based community organization originally comprising eight Catholic parishes in Greater Roseland (Roseland, West Pullman, and Riverdale) on Chicago's far South Side.[13][15] During his three years as the DCP's director, its staff grew from one to thirteen and its annual budget grew from $70,000 to $400,000, with accomplishments including helping set up a job training program, a college preparatory tutoring program, and a tenants' rights organization in Altgeld Gardens.[16] Obama also worked as a consultant and instructor for the Gamaliel Foundation, a community organizing institute.[17] In mid-1988, he traveled for the first time to Europe for three weeks and then for five weeks in Kenya, where he met many of his Kenyan relatives for the first time.[18]thats where Obama was funded - not a terrorist organisation i believe!!!



Yes....there are too many myths being spread around about this man..BUT the willingness of people to believe them without even doing any kind of research is what gets me....wave wink hug teddy bear hug bouquet of flowers


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Hugz_n_Kissez
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Posted: Yesterday, 11:07 PM CST
Galactic_bodhi wrote:
Well...the propaganda on both sides is over a millenium old. I don't think you're going to dispel it in one night on a forum.

It's the extremists on both sides that paint a negative picture of religion. I've never had any problems with muslims. I have had nothing but problems with so-called Christians.

Because you call yourself a Christian, doesn't mean you are. When you can walk the walk of Christ, then you have my respect. When you say Christ is the son of God, so go ahead and murder pagans and Native Americans because you're saved, then...you're just a hypocrite. Religion is the strawman justification used to dominate a socio-economic region. And the name of Christ has killed more people in this world than either world war, including Stalin and Hitler's millions.


Well at I tried...that's one thing I can't tolerate...especially when it's based on false information and stereo-types...but the info is there..should anyone care not to be ignorant anymore and look at it objectively...I have respect for those Christians who walk their talk too...I have none for hypocrits...wave wink hug teddy bear hug bouquet of flowers


I much more prefer my own beliefs where I see people as individuals...not as they race...religion...creed or colour...I'll take those any day over those Christians who promote...division...superiority....dissent...racism and discrimination!!!!!!!!!!


D'oh!


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Posted: Yesterday, 10:52 PM CST
Galactic_bodhi wrote:
Prays for Shelly's cut and paste to go tits up...and I'm an atheist...



Well this isn't about religion for me...It's about dispelling the myths that all Muslims are terrorists..so it's racism....that I am aiming at...not religion....wave wink hug teddy bear hug bouquet of flowers


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Posted: Yesterday, 10:39 PM CST
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
Now what was it you called me for comparing the Bible to the Quar'an????



http://www.submission.org/god-bible.html


Forgot to list the site....wine


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Hugz_n_Kissez
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Posted: Yesterday, 10:37 PM CST
jlw45 wrote:
you aint proving nothing except, your an arogent @ss


Now what was it you called me for comparing the Bible to the Quar'an????



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