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Im sorry guys...do you actually believe we are more free sexually because we want to avoid Muslims in our Scandinavian (Im a Dane myself) countries??? Come on...think guys....!
You cant be serious hopefully...thats the most rediculus thought I have ever heard about this subject. That is absolutely NOT true!

I might as well put my finger in the air and feel which wind blows at the moment and make that the reason for why we are liberated sexually

No guys...its simply because we had the porno introduced early and plus we have very good biology classes in school where we were taught by our bodies and the functions

No puritan views excist hardly anymore - its an old age thoughts. We are a very secular society and Im sure thats a huge reason. The US is much more religious than us.
Hardly anybody goes to church here...so for us church and state is divided.

I belong to those feeling very liberated with nudity...and I have always been like this. We are created this way...so nudity is natural...yup...I dont walk naked on beach though...I still have a little privacy left...and will never ne naked on beach...smile.

That part is saved for my special someone...when Im with my partner...Im totally free - have no inhibitions, except for curtain things I dont do. Extremes are not anything I enjoy when it comes to sex - and I never will be!

But I enjoy my sexuality and nudity...educate educate educate yourself about your body and how it functions. And stop thinking thinking about the model picture the world tries to make you girls copy.

Yes, when you move to a country...you adapt to their culture...you dont demand them to change their culture. Isnt that obvious?

Well, enough for now guys - have fun and a great day!

~JJ


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Yes, had one success...we didnt stay together though...only problem if people dont dare to be themselves but try to lie to be somebody else...but this could have happend even if you were in a non-long distance relationship...you never know until you actually have dated the person for some time. Long distance cannot continue forever though...
If you would base it on only a long distance relationship - take your time before getting engaged - plus it really requires you both to be totally honest with each other - dont share only your positive character traits!

Advantage of long distance...you usually get to know what people are thinking if they dare to be straight forward. You usually become friends with the guy/girl first...which I find important. When you want a soul mate its so so important to be friends first. Thats whats really gonna keep you together in the long run.

Wish you all the best,
~JJ

"Do not allow your imagination to become vain. Indeed, truth which is based on one's imagination is not worthy to be called truth"


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Just another thought thrown in here

What is democracys most important task...to protect the minority


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What do you as a woman find is sexy?

What do you believe men find sexy?

What would you like us men to think about when we say you are sexy?

Do you enjoy sex?
-or is it just a something you have to 'give' in marriage?

Do you feel its wrong to initiate sex as a woman?

Let me hear YOUR thoughts on this subject


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Keith, I agree with you...


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Oh you didnt know


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Yes I know its a provocation...but at least let me know that there is some 'sound' ones left


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You Americans take it like we dont like you...that is NOT the case...we are only pointing out that you need to start question what your president is doing!

As we say...he is damaging your country to an extend you guys obviously dont realize.

Yes we have a lot to be thankful for during the 2nd world war...and we are...but it doesnt mean we'll just close our eyes when somebody is trying to destroy your country!!!

I sure hope there would be somebody who cared about us by telling us Danes if our government was doing the same to either Danes or any other country.


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AKD is so right:
"there has never been a more insidious and negative force in america than this disgusting man, he has ruined the reputation of America for centuries to come and has done more damage in 8 years than the holocaust ever did in all it's horror."

You are so right - there has never been a president which has caused more damage to America!

~DJ


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Excuse me...you dont believe that it was actually to help the people...you cant possibly mean that.

Everybody knows its the oil its money which controls the decisions. Yes there might be some want to free them from Sadamm...BUT I can assure you its financial reasons which really was the reasons behind it. Weapons of mass destruction...where were they? They never found anything threathening.

Yes, now the war is going on...and I do like they actually got a change to create democracy. But you dont change people thoughts pattern overnite. It will take decades for this to happen.


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This was the first really positive respons Ive found expressed here...a republican admitting maybe Bush should have stayed in TX.
Question is will it change the road you have gone on...or will it continue its fully a police state.

I would hope that when people tells you there is something you should consider you would actually look at it objectively. Thats what we do as foreigners as we are not involved in your politics as it seems like lots of people just blindly believes their leader or his party.

Even his own people now have started questioning what he is doing to your country. Republican party have controlled the media quite well else you would never have come this far.

Never has media been more controlled in the information they get. I sure hope as I love America that you guys wake up before its too late.


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Im sorry...but again it seems like your history is lacking a little bit. Our country has democracy but has refused to let fear control us. We live in a dangerous world and no one can warrant safety totally.

The world has always been dangerous...quite interesting you or I should say your president believe you can force peace or freedom down on others.
What has the war in Iraq done to you Americans...it means you can't travel freely anymore. It means you are hated even more than ever by these fundamentalists. Force is only creating more resistance which means people wanting to destroy you.

Is that what you want?


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Lonely - I dont have time for that

Have lots of interests...so dont ever get to this point. Actually sometimes it would be great to be lonely for a little while


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Well nobody have said anything about my country...maybe because we have not yet come this far like your country

If you believe that I like everything in my country...think twice...but at least we are not giving up our freedom so far!

So far it the minority of Americans who fights that tendency...very interesting that most people who have replied here actually defends limits on freedom


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Ocee...well you didnt have the laws in the past...FYI: its not until after 9/11 its really progressed or at least been so visible!


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Yes protecting it by letting 'big brother' watching you

Is that freedom? Yes it's OK to tighten security as long as it goes through the court system. It becomes a problem when FBI or CIA or Homeland Security dont have to go through the court system to get permissions to surveil!!!

I can hardly believe you actually defend that Bush went outside the law to surveil people. Do you?

May I remind you about the meaning of the word 'Police State':
"A state in which the government exercises rigid and repressive controls over the social, economic, and political life of the people, especially by means of a secret police force."


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Joe
"What exactly would you have us do? Open our borders knowing that the enemy can and will stroll over to destroy us? Embrace our death, in the name of liberty?"
Well, how come you think these people in the first place wanted to destroy you guys. Could it be some of the foreign policies that your government has tried to force on others.
When has the use of force ever created more democracy? Just asking? Can you force somebody to give you freedom?
Lets just take it down to the marriage level...are you satisfied if you are being force to love somebody? Or do you prefer to be in a marriage because you love this person and actually also have the choice to leave if you want to? Or maybe you belongs to those type who likes to be handcuffed in bed

"Those folks over there will be glad to see each of us, Men, women, and Children, slaughtered. I do not return thier hatred, yet I will stand in defense of my homeland."
yes, they might do want to kill all of you...Im not saying you shouldnt do anything to protect your country just like we protect our country. But when laws are put in place which allows for government to surveil anybody without first having to get a court order...then you are on dangerous grounds. Thats how the former Iraq government started...just go look in history to see what these type of government ended up.
Again this reminds me about another Jefferson statement:
"The spirit of resistance to government is so valuable on certain occasions that I wish it to be always kept alive."

Cat:
"What do you expect in this day and age?"
Hope you dont just sit down and look as things passing by...have kind of already given up?...thats the worst case....then there is no hope. Hopefully you make your voice heard by voting...

Ocee, its actually very good to hear at least one person Ocee who actually seems to have some insight to whats going on. I agree with your reasoning in parts to what are causing the situation to become like this in America.
Well I do know there is other Americans who also try to make difference...I have several very good american friends who actually tries to fight the tendency in US government limiting their freedom. They make their voice heard in many different ways. Through organisations and/or through writing their congressman, etc.
The importance is trying to fight it...but always remember it can only be fought by you using the rules of democracy. No force will ever change anything in the long run.

Abracadabra...good to hear at least you agree with Ocee...smile.

Wow...this became much longer than expected...too much thinking for my part...now I want to have sex...LOL...ups, no lady is here, so no passionate love making :( ...where are you? - dont hide.
Im a great foreign political expert...that must be a huge turn on for you as a lady

PS!
"If once the people become inattentive to the public affairs, you and I, and Congress and Assemblies, Judges and Governors, shall all become wolves. It seems to be the law of our general nature, in spite of individual exceptions.", Thomas Jefferson


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Anyway, lets take the example of the UK...they have very strict laws and have camera surveilance everywhere. They have had those for years. Every public place this. Then I have one question...so did this prevent any terror in London?
These cameras were even not just regular cameras that record what is going on...these are intelligent cameras who actually can recoqnize criminals simply by them walking by. Again...I ask the question did it help prevent anything? It only helped identify who did this...but what does it matter...they blew themselves up anyway...
The only sane thing to do is to encourage people to be more aware of suspicious things going on around you...then report it to the authorities and let the court system deal with it and then let the police intervene if the laws permit this. Dont let the police avoid the court system as it seems like what is happening over there.

Isnt this typical some Americans get so defensive when foreigners point out a problem. Gravedigger, I wouldnt be suprise if you are a repulican who supports Bush. At least its a typical reactions from many Bush supporters Ive talked to.
BTW...we Danes are even down in Iraq supporting the US troops. Im not against America at all. I love travelling there and I have family on the east and west coast. When that is said...Im still amazed by the majority of Americans accepting these laws.
You country was build on freedom and now gradually its taken away from you.

I do remember a statement of one of your great presidents, Thomas Jefferson it sounds like this:
"I would rather be exposed to the inconveniences attending too much liberty than to those attending too small a degree of it."

What was the purpose of the terrorists...to ruin your freedom basically. To make you suffer...have they succeded to some extend by now? Will it continue to becoming worse? Are laws being put in place to control you as an individual even more? Gradually freedom is taken away and because it has happend gradually you dont realize how far you have gone until it will be too late. Do you as an American feel safe travelling all over the world? Or do you choose your destination carefully today before leaving?

As some of you might remember a danish newspaper printed some 'cartoons' of Muhammed which made the middle east go crazy. We used our freedom of speach and I will _always_ defend that no matter what. I can give you more info on this if you like but for now Im just gonna use it as an example of that freedom sometimes cost something. Im willing to pay the price simply because its my fundamental belief that I or anybody has the right to say what they want.

Im not against muslims or any other religion...just because I dont like the Muslim beliefs system which allows to use terror basically. I do know many great muslims who also defend the freedom of speech.


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Ok, guys guess I need to clarify certain things here

First I wanna say I dont care as much about tax laws or not...of course you need taxes to run a country. Tax laws is not what I see is limiting freedom. Its not that I think about. It the gradual change which people obviously dont see.

Secondly, yes Im a foreigner...and if I may ask...how do you know I dont contact those politicians here in Denmark. I actually get into the debates...I even write the news stations. Im even a member of a party and take active part in it. The so called 'anti-terror' laws they trying to put in place here too - just because of what happend in your country. I know a lot about danish politics as well as world politics. We as danes will not accept this limits on our freedom. Even if it should cost some lives...but again we have a foreign policy which doesnt try to force others to believe like us danes

Gravedigger...I start to understand why so many americans accept these so called 'anti-terror' laws. You guys believe you will have freedom and safety because of these laws. BTW...obviously you dont know much about world politics else you would know we dont have a congressional system :) ...we vote directly on each individual politician! Our government can maximum sit for 4 years but government can be force to have an election earlier if the parliament wants it. I have voted every single time except for one time and that was when I was in the US travelling. I had totaly forgotten about it else I would have voted by letter.
I dont know if you vote or not but I can tell you this. If you dont vote you dont have any right to complain...simply cause you didnt make an effort to make a change in government!!!
Not voting is the same as accepting what the government is doing.

Gravedigger: "Before you doen the states , did you think about all the new inventions in the last 100 years? 99% from the United States. How many inventions from Denmark? 0 , you say?"
Microsoft thought obviously we invented something good :) ...they bought an extremely well driven danish company here and we are the leading windmill producer of the world...so please spare me for you "america is so good" mentality. Yes a lot of things is great in America...BUT it doesnt mean that other countries are not making great inventions :) ...I would like to see the reference for your 1%

"Niels Bohr - Niels Bohr is often referred to as the second most important scientist of the 20th century after Albert Einstein. His work in physics developed greatly the knowledge we have on atomic structure and quantum mechanics."
He was a Dane! Yes we can be blamed for the effect of this inventions to a certain extend

"Hans Christian Ørsted
The discoverer of electromagnetism is one of the most influential people in Danish culture and society."
He was a Dane!

"Søren Kierkegaard
Danish philosopher and poet and one of the founding fathers of existentialism."
He was a Dane!

Gravedigger...some of our great scientists lived long before America even existed :) Just for your information ;) ...go back to your history books and try to go beyond you own country's history if you want to get a better picture of what has happend up through time... ...dont be ignorant...


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