seekingasoulmate: You are overthinking everything too much. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who had all of that on their mind. Relaxand let things happen, don't sweat the small stuff. One step at a time
Interesting post. I understand the part about not sweating the small stuff, but what if you were married to a doctor, a lawyer, an accountant, a politician, or even a policeman. They have to think a lot each day.
However, it is easy to forget a birthday, or an anniversary. One can also overlook a slight put down, etc, but if it is consistent? Plus how would you tell if your mate was cheating on you?
I see your point, and I know I am being devils advocate here, but we all have a brain which we should put to use each day.
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