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Sorry this happened...........damn cheaters


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Well he told me he lied to his parents before we got to his place, so he's telling *me* who he's lied to. Like I said, I don't actually "get it" he just said "They would ask questions if I said I was out with you". With his Facebook, it's the matter of his friends..he says he changed his status once and the girl dumped him 2 days later and he felt embarrassed/stupid......so he don't want his friends to know about us. In one hand, it makes sense, some would point to some obvious like maybe he already has a girlfriend..........I know he had a girlfriend who he lived with, and she cheated on him. I know it's been over a year, and it still makes him bitter to think about. I think she was like his first real love or something, and maybe he's afraid to get hurt again?


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Okay, so I'd like someone else's prospective. You met this guy back in May, you see eachother but not very often. When you do it's a movie or something, very casual, he never tries to kiss you or anything so you assume you're "friends", not "on a date". You like this person, but are fine if you're just friends also. Anywho, months go by.....he tells you he misses you and thought about you on his weekend away with friends, and you two mutually agree, so now you're "together". BUT, you still rarely see them as they're busy with friends, etc. okay that's fine I realize you need a life outside of eachother. But they wont put Facebook status as "in relationship" they don't want their friends to know, and today we spent the entire day together (4pm-2am) which was, well, really good, but he lied to his parents about who he was seeing. We went to his house first time we been there we always do movies or whatever, but he told his parents he was with a guy friend today instead of the truth. He tells me don't take it personally. He's 24, i'm 22...but I been married before, and have a kid...and somehow, maybe he's ashamed I really do not know.....he says I am the most pretty girl, he wonders how he got me etc. etc. tonight was the first night he actually tried to kiss me, and it was a peck. He's a really hard to get guy and it's driving me crazy.


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I like the concept of marriage, a happy marriage...........my marriage was sort of the oppisite of what I thought married WOULD be. It seemed all good until we took vows, that's when it all slopped downhill.


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No I would not. I have a son, which I think he deserves to be around my family, ya know his grandparents, aunts etc. I wouldn't move him away to be with a guy.


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I discovered this with recent dating...Guys expect you to wear makeup and be all dolled up etc. to go out on a date....SOMETIMES, ya just don't feel like it. At least I don't. I'm not really a make-up kind of person, I have to be in the mood. I don't like to make dates in advance, incase the day of---I want to just stay home. Again, this is my issue but I don't always LIKE going out, I have to be in the mood, and if you say you aren't they get offended. And the latest, they think the world should revolve around them. They will say "talk to you later" and not come online, which is okay doesn't bother me, but when I say internet is boring and I want to go off and do something BESIDES talk to them, they say "whatever". I am giving up on this online dating thing. Maybe it's just me, but I like my own space. I've always been a bit of a loner. And it seems like if you aren't there all the time, or you say no...you get deleted/they don't talk to you anymore like some major rejection. Maybe they aren't used to hearing no? I mean, I say "Lets make it for another day" or "talk to you tomorrow" or something like that. It isn't rejecting them totally, just for that day/time etc. when I am not in the mood. If the shoe was on the other foot, i'd understand?


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So there's this guy, I been out with a number of times since we met I think back in May. He gets busy a lot doing his own thing, as do I so seeing eachother isn't that often. He seems nice, respectable, never tried to kiss or hold hands or anything so I assume we're just friends. Few days ago, he tells me he thinks about me, misses me, and wants us to "see where it goes". Apparently on our next date he said to be more affectionate(kiss?) but he didn't MAKE a date with me yet. Also said he wasn't going to date others as he likes me, but that i'm free to date still. And doesn't label us as "together" wont change Facebook status or anything like that. Now I am not one to date around, so i'd date him and just him, but on the other hand, does it sound like a bit of a time waster? I have told other guys interested about this, and said I was going to see where it's going......I guess I believe in honesty.


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I had a joint with my ex. I say as long as you both have an understanding, and talk about money. Example; you don't run out and buy something big and expensive without discussing it with your partner first. It takes trust, but then again without trust is it really a good relationship in the first place?


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Guys who make it sound like LOOKS are important, I've had too many guys want me for looks and not for who I am, and it ticks me off. They don't care how I think, or like me for my mind or my personallity...


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Cute lol


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When it felt right no matter how soon or long it may be. But there's got to be emotions there.


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Honestly, I have no idea WHAT it is about him........ my mind & my heart are always in 2 places with him, my mind is the logical where I know what is right, but my heart is always feeling strong and this attachment to him and no matter what my mind thinks my heart doesn't stop hurting or listen. It's like a battle within myself. And sadly, my heart tends to win.


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No that wasn't it, he lives with HIS parents in the USA, he is 25 and basically is 'too afraid' to move out onto his own. Here, there, basically anywhere, even with me, he finds "security" in parents or something. He lives with them, doesn't pay rent etc. etc. I am the one that wants a real life, but it would be me working and doing it all, and I just wish he wanted to grow up and want it.


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So, I am married. I've been married since July '04 going on 4 years. But last July my husband had up and left me and my son, and he went back to the USA. He ignored me for months, I heard from him online, he kept disappearing though. Well, he came back in contact and somehow we arranged a time to see eachother. I thought I was over him and would be ok with this. So for 2 days, we're in a hotel, talking a lot, walking a lot, just spending time together seeing as we didn't see eachother for like 10 almost 11 months. And he was so sweet, and it was perfect. And now I miss him. I tried "dating" and moving on and well, when it came down to it, I didn't want anyone else. I found myself attracted, but I couldn't bring myself to really kiss or touch anyone else, felt wrong. The kicker, we can't "be together" again unless he moves back here into his own place (he was living with me & my parents) and he lacks responsibilty and basically says it's too much work, and he's too scared to do it. So we'll probably NEVER EVER "be together" again for a real because he wants me to move there and immigration to the USA takes forever, and he's already got a immigration card for Canada, so he can work here and stuff. And then I remember why we had issues when we were together, fighting a lot, and hitting, and just a bunch of problems like he lied a lot and I would yell at him a lot and it's so hard. I feel I am never getting over him so it's him or a lonely life and ugh I am confused and it's complicated.


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So, I met this guy on this dating site (not this one) we went out for dinner Tuesday, and he came over today at around 5ish and didn't leave until midnight or so. And I really liked him, but it's akward. He kind of went to kiss me, and I pulled away. I haven't exactly "dated" a lot. I have kissed 5 guys i my LIFE. I met someone at 16, married them at 18, and we seperated when I was 21. I am now 22. I find guys easily "lose interest" since I don't kiss them or whatever, but I really *do* like this guy and I want him to know that, but on the other hand....... I want to move a bit at my pace which is slow. I don't want to force myself to kiss him until it feels right, but I don't want him to just move on to someone else either.


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Nope I am not into a guy even a year younger, I like older by like 2+ years


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Nope


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How many STDs have/had you had?


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