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Number 5 Not showing enough attention

Dates don't just organize themselves and relationships don't spring from nothing. You might think that if you hang back and play it cool she'll come to you. Well, this is one of the major ways guys blow it. Most of the time, you're going to have to make the first move and let her know that you're interested. Not showing enough attention can blow your chances before anything even happens, because if she's debating whether or not you like her, she's not going to want to waste her time with the effort of the unknown. Moral of the lesson here: You can either let her know you're interested or watch as she leaves with the guy who didn't blow it and showed enough attention to her.

Number 3 Not taking charge

The only good thing ballroom dancing gave the world is this lesson: The man should lead. You'll often find that women try to dominate a relationship by laying down rules and setting boundaries. Letting her get away with this is a big mistake. As much as she thinks she wants a man to follow her every command, in the long run she won't respect you for it. If you're any kind of man, you won't respect yourself either. If you think she's playing dating games to gain some kind of power, call her on it straight away.

Do you think you should always tell someone the truth even if it may hurt their feelings and there's the chance they may get upset with you?

Especially when/ if they say they'e a big woman/man and they can handle the truth. So you tell them the truth and they become mad anyway. It just seems to me to be a no win situation.

Well I always thought that if you and them are Real/True friends, and you both Really care about one another enough to be honest then why not be upward and straight forward and tell the ruth. They may not want to hear it, but if they are your real friend they will understand.

Kinda like this.

Hi everybody!

Still I always wait for the punch line to tell me if I should be bent out of shape about something. Oh well. It's just a joke.

It's about being over sensitive thats a severe problem for some people and they do not recognize they have this severe problem, but little crap gets to them and others are supposed to not have fun cause they have to be so freaking up tight.

But the joke was NOt about breast removal but A removal of a HAND from a Breast , which is totally different , GEEEEZ people learn to read!!!

Post in every thread possible with stupid replies. Or open meaningless threads.

Not a co-worker or a boss. Lets just say I am a vendor to certain extent and I have many accounts. I meet lots of atractive women every day and i often wonder would I be out of line?

So perhaps you folks can help me understand a few things. I met a lady on here a week or so ago and we had hit it off well. We had chatted briefly through IM here a few times during the day and had set a night up so we would be able to converse without interuptions. the time came for us to chat, I showed up here only to find her profile either hidden or blocked. I understand that there are some gamers out there and that I should simply chalk this up to experience but in the same sense how do you as members here read through these facades and really meet people and trust them.
I don't want to sound forlorn or depressed but I am dissappointed and wondering if the whole online thing is just as bad as the bar scene or any other singles scene where people portray themselves as something they aren't.
Cabn someone please help me to understand or at least give me some ideas as to how to read through these facades?

Is it wrong to approach a person of the opposite sex in their place of work? (Ask out on a date, flirt, etc.)

1. Bored ( Most of the time)
2. Lonely (Same Answer)
3. Horney( Psssst , a womans job is never done)
4. Practicing your typing skills. (Main exercise my fingers get except
see #3 )
5. Exploring "your options." (Do I just go and kidnap one)
6. You're under house arrest (My apartment is holding me Hostage)

I think I choose all of the above!!

what hair are we talking about E on top or below

Jeez guys...I'm shocked....after getting all friendly and up-close with half of you, I find out in the wash that you're a bunch of flakes...

...the largest percentage in the poll chose "exploring my options"....

...what does this mean?....

..does this mean that you're sorta kinda ..definitely in a relationship (read married, involved, bored, unsatisfied, he's got no job, ugly MF, don't fancy his car/mother-in-law, etc)..., but you wanna fish around and see if ya could catch something better??...

...do I get raisins with this??...pass the milk please...

my question was, will he be rated better in the historical context. Meaning by future generations who aren't even born yet.