Ok. Here is a 100% honest answer.
Oral stimulation will work as long as the guy doesnt lick like he is painting a fence.
Digital will work as long as he doesn't do it like he is trying to break something.
Most women don't like it when a guy is rough when they are doing either of these things.
A combiation of oral with digital penetration will usually work even better.
Neither of these methods will work 100% of the time.
This means that one day one method works while others will not.
Orgasm during intercourse is not impossible either.
This will be easier to do if the man is not concentrating on his own pleasure.
You do this by entering ,and instead of simply moving in and out ,you make sure your pubic bone is in contact with her clitoris and rubbing and grinding on it.
This will also work with her on top by making sure her clitoris stays in contact with your pubic bone(The pubic bone is located directly above your penis).
She may need to spread her lips with her fingers for this to work ,but with enough lubrication the lips should slide open for you.
The pubic bone is located directly above your penis.
I personally don't have a method hat works 100% of the time so my partner has to be ok with me telling him what he needs to do.
Keep trying and one method is bound to work.
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