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SWFinMA30 Taunton, Massachusetts USA
g33kgurl: a mate of mine has had her heart broken by one guy several times over 7 years... is it better to get your heart broken over and over again by the one man over 7 years or a number of guys instead?



Well if I got my heart broken more than once by the same guy ,that would make me a sucker.
Since I am not a sucker I prefer my heart to get broken by several men over time.
Kinda prefer to not have it broken at all but hey its part of life and learning from our mistakes.


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SWFinMA30 Taunton, Massachusetts USA
It has always been my opinion that it depends on how the murder was commitited.
I think a person who kills someone out of insanity they should be locked away in a looney bin for the rest of thier natural life.
If the person is sane they should be locked away for life in a supermax prison.
People who rape children or adults should be locked away in a looney bin for life ,because chances are that if they are put in prison they will be killed by a murderer who is serving life anyway.
Rapists will almost always reoffend.
Keep in mind that parole would not ever be possible for any of these criminals.



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SWFinMA30 Taunton, Massachusetts USA
That potential partner did agree to relocate and we wanted it to work so badly that we were in denial until reality came along and gave us both a big fat "Whassa mattah fo you?" smack in the head.
Everyone is right though in that if it is "The real thing" then it is worth it to continue the long distance relationship.
I have sent him a message about the situation on another site and I am just going to see what he thinks.
If it doesn't work out then hey I gave it a last shot and it wasn't meant to be and I will just move on with my life.
Thanks for the input and yes I am even thankful for the things I didn't want to hear(or read in this case). thanks


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SWFinMA30 Taunton, Massachusetts USA
Judging by the responses I have recieved ,I have made a mistake and should have continued the relationship.
I don't know for sure yet but I will discuss it with him and see what came out of it.
Hopefully other wrenches don't get thrown into the gears.
I will come back and tell everyone what happens.


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SWFinMA30 Taunton, Massachusetts USA
If the woman in this situation had her 15 yr old childs' blessing she would go in a heartbeat.


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SWFinMA30 Taunton, Massachusetts USA
sweetowen: A lot can happen in 3 years. As I said though, right now, what else do you have to do? I mean, is there any other 'love interest'?

Is emailing/IMing/talking on the phone enough for you? Can you/he make trips to visit the other?


Niether of us can afford to travel a lot ,and it would be too difficult to simply keep in touch.
This is why relocation was the plan ,because we can't afford to travel.




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SWFinMA30 Taunton, Massachusetts USA
One of the kids lives with grandparents ,and is 15 and sees his mother pretty much every day,but this mother has no legal custody so she cannot take the child away from grandparents.
The other kid is 6 and lives with his dad full time but sees his mother weekly(it would violate visitation for the guy to relocate with the child).




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SWFinMA30 Taunton, Massachusetts USA
My actual question was...........Do you think it would be worth it to wait 3 yrs?
When you think about it ,the past 3 yrs went by fast so maybe the next three will too.



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SWFinMA30 Taunton, Massachusetts USA
SWFinMA30: The reason is kids though ,both of these people have kids.
One of them will be 18 in 3 yrs.


Oh and also both are single parents and can't take the kids away from other family members without serious consequences.


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SWFinMA30 Taunton, Massachusetts USA
The reason is kids though ,both of these people have kids.
One of them will be 18 in 3 yrs.


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SWFinMA30 Taunton, Massachusetts USA
and he/she lived in another part of your state which made it a long distance relationship.
This person came to meet you and you both fell hopelessly in love,this person also came to see you every other week for a couple of days for about 2 months,and you both talked about growing old together.
Ok here's the crappy part........Neither of you can relocate because of legitamate reasons and the reason is the same for both of you ,but you were both in denial about it because you wanted so badly for it to work.
You decide mutually to break it off and try again in 3 years because one of you will be able to relocate at that time.

Would you.......

A.Try not to get into a serious relationship and just play the field until 3 years has passed.
B.Move on knowing that if you do you will probably never find "The One" again.

If there is anyone who would like to add a "C" option feel free because anything will help.



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SWFinMA30 Taunton, Massachusetts USA
I was here for like 8 months before I found someone ,and I am glad I didn't give up.
If it can happen for me ,it can happen for anyone.
You just have to be patient and also don't sit back and wait for the fishes to swim to you.
Oh and don't wait forever to meet the person you're interested in.


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SWFinMA30 Taunton, Massachusetts USA
Have sex when ever you feel like it.
If you both want it then there is no reason to hold back.


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SWFinMA30 Taunton, Massachusetts USA
I like all Neil Youngs songs and I have to say my favorite song by him is Sugar Mountain.


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SWFinMA30 Taunton, Massachusetts USA
tainogirl: We would all like to love and to be loved unconditionally. However sometimes life can throw us a curved ball. What would you do in these scenarios:

What if you met someone online and you clicked then you later found out that they were disabled, would you still date them? would you be willing to make whatever changes or adjustments were necessary to make it work?

What if you met an able bodied person and dated or married them and through some accident or illness they became severly disabled and the two of you could no longer function as a normal couple(sexually etc..., would you choose to remain in the relationship knowing that it would probably mean a lot of sacrifice on your part or would you walk away from the relationship?


I think I can say yes in both situations ,because love is about just that LOVE and not what the other person can do for you.
You just have to figure a way around ,over and through things no matter how difficult.



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SWFinMA30 Taunton, Massachusetts USA
SWFinMA30 Taunton, Massachusetts USA
Hmmm I would have to say Star Trek Next Generation and/or The X-Files.
Yup I am a nerd.


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