Ahh The Age And Maturity Subject:
all i have to say is everyone is diffrent but there is a general rule of women being more mature then men a certain points in their life.
out of all the women ive dated (wich is about 6) they have all been older than me by at least 5-6 years with the exception of one
and i dont want you guys to get me wrong i wasnt some boy toy( i wish)
it was a mutual romantic relationship
i took care of myself and the significant other as much as i could
by no means was i ever a moocher
i was mature about certain things
and i was a kid about others
when it came to serious stuff i would act as mature as a 40 year old with 7 kids and a mortgage
when it comes to having fun i party like a little teenager
i almost married my last gf and she was a good 6 years older than me
crossed an ocean for her
but at the end of the day she had some issues that she needed to resolve on her own
and i was with her every step of the way
till she got rid of me and found some one else
this is the punch line though : she told me that i still had some growing up to do
and thats when i just walked away myself
oh and she started seeing some other guy whos pushing 40 now
(wich is fine with me)
but the fact that she told me that i had to grow up
after i come here to the states with a little over 300 dollars in my pocket
and withing 2 weeks im working at a respectable job with a future
baught a new car withing 2 months of me working there and now im looking to house shop and go back to school
the other guy has some 20something grand saved up and still doesnt know what he waants to do in life
im sorry everyone im just venting here
just the fact that she told me i need to grow up pissed me off
oh by the way shes about 20 grand in debt now
something that i was helping her with when we were together
and it was only 8 grand
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