thehearld: lets see, the difference between being lonely and alone? have you ever just found out that no matter what you do you are still single? no matter how hard you try or how many dates you go on, its still ends up the same, u on ur own? even though you have lots of good solid friends you just feel like you have nobody u think u can confide in. no person to share ur time with to experience the joy in life , the every day things that make you what you are who u want to be. you wonder "why? why cant i get that someone for me?" all ur friends are either married or living with people, u know they are there for u if u told them how u feel but u just dont or cant share ur inner most feelings about ur desire to have someone to share ur life , space , heart with.
My question to you is....Can you accept that you are exactly where you are supposed to be right at this moment?
My experience has taught me in this particular type of scenario that I needed to work on something about myself and become comfortable with who I was in order to be able to be comfortable with others. Self acceptance first, acceptance of others afterward.
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