venere08: Hi ladies and gents
I'd like to invite some open discussion here.
You see, I am getting a bit confused.
Let's say, you do meet THE ONE. Well, we all know it doesn't stop there. The realities of living with one and other will soon kick in. One really important area is getting the better of me lately, as I talk with different people.
In this day and age, I think we have all possibly become a bit confused about 'roles'. I think there are often 'unspoken' expectations which can cause unnecessary friction/conflict.
Men like a woman to be financially independent, and preferably have serious work and personal interests/passions.
At times, men may also yearn for the more traditional role of the woman being home maker, to have a cooked meal ready for when they come home from work. Personally, I have to admit a part of me finds the latter appealing as for example, I do love to cook, and did I mention I have Italian genes, but I digress.
Anyway, because I have heard it all too often lately from different people, both on and offline, I thought I'd invite you to share your opinions.
I thank you.
I personally don't have a preference as to how she contributes as long as she does. Don't get me wrong here I still want a lady in the street a whore in the bedroom just like every man, but as for how she contributes to the relationship, thats kind of upto her.
Keeping a home is a tuff job, but if she works as well the things around the house still need to be done so then that becomes a shared responsibility. JMO
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