Having been single and alone for over 7 years I've had plenty of time to ponder this one.
I'm not happy being single at all but some of the worst things include:
People asking 'Why aren't you married?'
People saying 'You're a great guy, good looking, intellient, thoughtful, honest and considerate, you're everything women look for in a guy, you really should be with a partner'
It's too easy to fall into the stereotype 'lonely guy' trap where you realise you're the only guy in the bar without a partner....even if most of the others are actually argueing.
HOWEVER. Despite not liking being single I do appreciate all the good things like being able to take a weekend off and hop on a plane to some far off country for a day or two without having booked and planned every last detail. etc. etc.
When I look around at my friends and their partners I always end up thinking that I wouldn't swap with any of them...perhaps we singles are all looking for something too good?
People talk about 'lowering your sights' but the same people will often say don't sell yourself short as well.
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