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Well i do hope you find someone to spend some time with and someone to get to know!!


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What women say they want and what they really want can be somewhat different. Same with guys too i guess. You find people on the net that say all they want is to chat online and thats cool I'm happy with that.

If thats all you want don't lead a guy up the path of thinking its more than it really is.

I am happy to be just chatting buddies don't get me wrong, its great to have friends. But to say that they are falling for a guy and then make up 1000's of excuses why they wont even meet up for coffee at a coffee shop i don't want to know about it!!

I don't know if its possible to start to fall for someone that you have never met in person, but you can be attacked to them on the mental level.

Just say it as it is and don't beat around the bush!




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I see your point paws. Just because your chatting with someone and you get close to them does not give anyone the right to leave someone hanging. Honesty is important here, If your not interested just say so. If friends is all it is, let it be known.


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I cant say i have any, but must admit that i have seen some tatt's that are very sexy on a female.


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Considering that I am not out for the One Night Stand thing a mind connection is important. Whats the point of spending more time than the first meeting if you have no connection at all. I need to be mentally attracted and stimulated by someone before I'm going to spend more time with anyone.

On here you can be attracted to someone mentally before physically and thats the upside to internet chatting.


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I loved the shaved feeling, since i shaved myself i could never look back tor go back... Shaved all the way!


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Good Old Phillip Island.

It may be a little isolated but thats whats so nice about the place. Lots of passer byes during the holidays and weekends but you live in a great place.

So where did you move from?


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True... But things got a whole lot better and worse since then hehe


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Hello and welcome


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21 with my first real love.. Late starter but I made up for it


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I think that it can exist as long as both peoples are in a place in life where they don't need love to exist happy. When 2 people are happy with out love i feel that then they can find it.

So many people look for love but they are really seeking band aids. Something to cover over the pain, but as we all know, band aids fall off after time and then people get hurt all over again.

Friends with benefits is common these days, but not all of us seek that.


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There are i guess 8 types of people.

1) Unemployed that don't want to work at all
2) Unemployed that seriously look for work
3) People employed in a dead end job with no drive
4) People employed in a dead end job that seek more and have drive
5) People employed in great jobs and are happy
6) People that own their own business and are busy growing
7) People that own their own company/s and are busy growing
8) People that own several companies and are busy growing

Out of all of that, what is the best one to be in?
1) Have all the time in the world but no money to do anything
8) Spend all of the time working and have no time to enjoy life. (unless they are smart enough to employ the right peoples to carry on business.

I know where i fit into all of this, but what is it that women want?




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This whole tread has lead to "The Secret" again. They way you are and what you believe is what you will attract to yourself.

Why do people search for this absolute love. Love is what you make of it and what you put into it. I have met peoples that say "Only if someone would love me" and others "I only want to real thing" then there is the ones that "I want what they had in that movie".

Only if someone would love me:
Only if you would love yourself and not base your worth on someone loving you. I am not looking to satisfy someones self worth as i know who i am and what i am.

I only want the real thing:
What is the real thing? Is it not what you make of it? Love is not this magical force that just appears (thats lust) Love starts with an attraction on some level (mental would be best, well for me) and then it proceeds along a long road. Love is not the end result its the journey.

I want what they had in that movie:
Next!! If someone is going to base the success of a relationship and the journey of love on something fabricated on TV or on the big screen i say wake up and smell the coffee. Get a dose or reality and learn what love can be.

We are what we are and we are where we are, not by chance but by choice. If someone needs love to show them who they are, maybe their that far lost that they will never find this Perfect love.

We all at some point in life need to accept the fact that we are who we are by the choices that we have made.

Love will come to those who attract it by there attitude to life and not to those that sit back and complain what they don't have.


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Hey hey GoGirl

I dont mind how far away she may be right now as being single/seperated has taught me many good lessons in life. One thing i have learnt is that true friends are hard to find but when you do it makes life so much easier to deal with.

One day i know that i will meet her, and i look forward to that day. I am in no rush and I am looking forward to the jurny to get there. If i can collect lots of good friends on the way its going to be all worth it.


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What's the point of having money if you have no one to share it with. What is happieness to me may not be be the same as everyone. I would give up all of the money in the world for the right person.

A rich and famous man was onced asked, "How much more money would it take to make you happy". His reply was "Just a little bit more".

Give me a nice warm cuddles on a cold night in front of the fire and thats happieness.


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Nope, as long as the woman knows whats what from the start. Plenty of guys treat women like crap, they promise the world and take what they want from them then throw them aside.

If your out just for sex and the girls you meet want the same thing, thats great.

Its the @ss wipes that give the rest of us guys a bad name


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It sucks to read through the threads and see so many comments about "The Typical Male." That almost all males are players on these sites.

I wish these game players would just bugger off and die somewhere lonley. It may sound harsh but why come on here and play games, GET A LIFE.

There are some decent guys out there, may not be many but we do exist



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That may explain why your single.

What do men really want all depends on the type of man your talking about.

There are plenty of @ss wipes out there that think women should be treaded like a pice of meat and just want the casual sex with no commitment and then there are other genuine guys out there that want the real deal.

Someone to connect with, cuddle up too and have lots of fun and laughs. Is that too much to ask for?


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I dont see a problem with mums at all. As long as there is some type of connection (even if just friends). Having children should not matter at all. I guess its all dependant on what guys are here for.. Casual Sex or something a little more personal.


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