Great conversation question! I not would wait but, I normally am the kind that will wait because, first of all; because I don't like to just jump into bed with anyone, secondly, I do want to see who and what this other person is made up of before I get in too deep(pardon the pun!). Besides, if you meet someone and just jump right into the sex, it takes away the time necessary to build intimacy and trust. Not to mention friendship. Unless, of course you are just in it for the sex and fun for a short time. If that is the case then I feel you should make your intensions known upfront and, not after you have already gotten what you wanted. It all goes back to respect, not just for the other person but, also for yourself.
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