HJFinAZ: Well, as matter of fact, I have been to gay bars also. Is there something wrong with gay people that they should not be allowed in bars? Are they outcasts of (your) society and should be locked away in some deep hole?
Let me think now. You are 32 (younger than either of my kids), I am 66. Shit!!!!!!!!! Please excuse me, I know that you surely have experienced so much more than I. I must dwell on this one for a bit.
BTW, at one point in life, I was A "skid row drunk". Doubt you would have had the desire to be there with me.
there you go again jumping to conclusions. i dont have a society. quite the opposite really. nice try, but youll have to get up earlier in the morning to trick me into alienating segments of the population in hopes that i might get lynched by a dating site message board.
the point is im not gay so i dont feel a need to go to gay bars.
i dont understand why you want to make this into a competition of whos been thru more. i dont judge a book by its cover. maybe you shouldnt either. youd be surprised to hear about the precarious situations a wreckless, self destructive, orphan of my tender age can find in the dark alleys of several cities, on 2 continents with very little effort. maybe one day i will take the advice of many who say i should write a book about it. but i think id rather keep it in the past.
im sorry to hear you were in such a situation as skid row drunkenness. theres nothing worse than being in a position where you must rely on others for your basic needs. self esteem is underrated.
i flew to los angeles once on a one way ticket with $200 in my pocket and didnt know a soul. i was there 2 years to the day. i know what its like to not have a roof over your head and have felt the desperation that segways into hopelessness... which then takes you places most people dont know(or want to admit) exist.
if you still think just because im not(nearly
) as old as you that my life has been peaches and cream theres nothing i can do about that. hopefully you arent as bitter in real life as you come across to me here. sorry if i struck a nerve.
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